I am starting to realize that life isn't about how you look, how much money you have, it isn't about what you do, or who you're with, and it isn't about what other people think of you. Life is about how you feel about yourself, and how happy you are with the life you are living. I have realized that i no longer need to live for other people, but for myself, and of course for my children, who didn't ask to be here. I love my job, and my kids, my man, and most of the time i'm happy with my life. Thank god for the internet, it saves me from the throes of boredom on a daily basis LOL.