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The Art of the Pickup

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

"The Art of the Pickup" is a video series produced by the founder of the online pickup community, Jay Valens (aka "Formhandle"). It's a step-by-step video how-to which takes you from A to Z, from meet, to attraction, to follow-ups, and all the way to getting physical. A new blog has been set up at http://whatisaotp.com/ which is dedicated to sharing all kinds of content, including videos and free giveaways, having to do with the latest project from The Art of the Pickup called " Tactics & Techniques "

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

We're on a quest to find and help table.friendsComments{table-layout:fixed;width:400px}all those guys out there who are looking for the best advice in the world of pickup, dating, and seduction.

My Blog

Why Cocky/Funny Is Destroying Your Chances With Women, Part 2

    *  Problem 4: Frequency of Cocky/funnyAt some point, there has to be a real person inside the cocky/funny shell.  Back when I was reading dating advice, I remember someone asking a question from t...
Posted by on Fri, 13 Feb 2009 14:42:00 GMT

Grab A Seat At Our Exclusive Event

This is truly going to be an event to remember.  Were gathering more than a dozen of the best battle-tested minds of pickup, seduction, and dating and bringing them to you at an exclusive 3.5-day se...
Posted by on Thu, 12 Feb 2009 14:32:00 GMT

Why Cocky/Funny Is Destroying Your Chances With Women

If you are on the Internet seeking dating advice, chances are good that you have come across a concept called cocky/funny.  About 6 years ago, a gentleman started writing countless articles and newsle...
Posted by on Wed, 11 Feb 2009 14:36:00 GMT

Insight from Ant Trails

When I was still in college, I used to work at a print shop.  We did all kinds of printing copying and finishing.  My friend who worked there (the first guy I ever knew who had actual, real,...
Posted by on Wed, 29 Oct 2008 18:07:00 GMT

The Power of Persistence

by Jay ValensWe've been giving you a lot of tactics and examples and I want to step back a bit and give you some advice on a more general level. Some of this comes from Ray, and some of it comes from ...
Posted by on Fri, 24 Oct 2008 14:29:00 GMT

Shhh! A Cool New Tactic

by Ray DevansOK, so I have more tactics and techniques than a dog has fleas.  Wait, that isn't a good analogy.  I have more tactics and techniques than Warren Buffet has millions.  But ...
Posted by on Fri, 10 Oct 2008 13:25:00 GMT

You Need to Have a Plan

by Jay ValensNo matter what your strategy for improving your game, the fact remains that you need a plan.By having a plan, I don't mean "I plan to succeed" or "I will learn X, Y or Z method", I mean, ...
Posted by on Wed, 08 Oct 2008 13:23:00 GMT

A Simple Touch Tactic

by Ray DevansA lot of guys have a hard time initiating touch with a woman, or they do it wrong.  It's important to touch a woman early on when meeting her, for many reasons.  If you don't to...
Posted by on Thu, 02 Oct 2008 21:22:00 GMT