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About Me


Hi all, I'm Don Sir. Yes, Don is my real name. I've been involved in the BDSM/leather lifestyle for more than a decade and counting. My reign as Mr. Long Beach Leather 2007 is coming to an end soon and I don't think I'll ever be the same again. Through my experiences as a leather title holder, I learned a lot and have met some of the most wonderful and amazing people on the planet. I've also learned quite a bit about myself as well, which is the idea actually. This whole BDSM thing is just an exercise in futility if one doesn't know oneself. I used to think I had all the answers and knew everything I needed to know, but I was wrong. This lifestyle doesn't exist in a vacuum, it's a living, breathing entity; it's a community that's growing and changing rapidly so static answers and pat assumptions just can't cover it. There's still so much to learn and I'm totally up for that.

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My Blog

Mr. Long Beach Leather Wants YOU!

Hey everybody, this coming Saturday 9pm at Pistons bar in Long Beach, a new Mr. Long Beach Leather will be crowned and I will "pass my sash", as it were.  Contestants are still needed so if you h...
Posted by on Mon, 18 Aug 2008 21:18:00 GMT

My website is now up!

After a few months of tinkering, coding, and more than a little gnashing of teeth, slave sandy has completed all the work for the galleries and finally launched my website.  Come have a look... w...
Posted by on Sun, 01 Jun 2008 15:54:00 GMT

IML XXX

Hi everyone and thanks for your patience while myspace bent me over for the second time.  Here is a short synopsis of what happened in Chicago at IML XXX.  It was an amazing time for me and ...
Posted by on Fri, 30 May 2008 11:23:00 GMT