I found this letter a while back and I have always liked it. It was written by a guy who is seeking his soulmate. I tweeked the letter to fit what I want. Read it below and you'll get a good idea of what I'm looking for, if you're interested....Dear Boy,
I dont know who you are, or where or when we'll meet, but I do hope it is soon.
I pray that when we meet and fall in love, you will oveme for me, and not for someone who is muscular or cuter. I hope you won't compare me to other guys who may have brighter smiles or better looks. I hope that you will make me laugh, take care of me when I get sick, and be trustworthy. I hope you will remmeber that I'd prefer white roses to red roses, and that my favorite color changes with my mood. Please know that my eyes are brown. I know they're not that exciting, but they're still part of me.
Please know that I might be shy to kiss you at first, but please dont be afraid to kiss me. I won't slap you or push you away. I'm sure your kiss will be perfect. When we go on a date, please don't strss about where to take me; whats important is that i'll be with you.
If I cry, please know it isn't because of you. Just hold me close and I'll heal quickly. And if it is because of you, hold me close still and I'll heal just the same.
And if we decide to break up, please understand that I may be bitter, but I'd like to be your friend if you you'll let me be. I'll promise to remember that you have feelings too, even though you'll never admit it, and when you are ready, we'll have a friendship. Please tell me if anything I do bothers you, or if something just doesnt sit right. I would like you to always be hoonest with me. If I have a bad day, I hope you will shower me with confidence and smiles, and not negativity. In return, I will do the same, I PROMISE!
I hope you dont think I'm asking too much of you. I hope you understand that I'm a little bit nervous and very scared. I wish I could tell you how or when we will meet, and if we will be in love forever, but I cant. I'm sorry! Every realtionship is a new game of cards, and...sigh...I've never been good at cards. I will try my best to be kind and love you dearly for who you are, without expecting too much from you. Thank you for listening. This is all that I ask whoever you are.Yours Always,
Ruben
