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Valerie

About Me


Please keep checking back to take a look at my blogs. I have a lot of interesting subjects to write about that will hopefully pique your interest or give you new insight. The purpose of my blogs is to get people to think and expose them to truths and/or different ideas that they may otherwise not be aware of. Remember to keep an open mind while reading!
I will be editing and updating them a little from time to time - some may have larger amounts of editing, therefore I suggest you read them again so you don't miss anything (look for the (EDITED) note after the title). In general, the length of my blogs are reasonable, with some being longer or shorter than others.
To my non-American readers: Most of what I have written is aimed at Americans, so it may be difficult to understand what I am writing about or my viewpoint. However, I hope my blogs at least give you a glimpse into American culture.
Current blog entries include:
    Bat Facts For You, Part 1 - Myths Children Should Be Unseen Bat Facts For You, Part 2 - Benefits Bats In Your Home? Regrets Forgiveness Give the Gift of Life - Organ and Bood Donation Watch Your Mouth! Santa Claus Is Not Real Leave Fireworks To The Professionals Can You See The Milky Way? Elderly People Should Not Drive What’s Up With Cochlear Implants? Women Are Not Liberated Caring For Our Fellow Creatures What Auburn Really Needs Did You Use Soap? Movie Theater Etiquette The Need For Space Exploration Reforming Pop Culture With Civil Disobedience The Beauty Of Languages Exercise Your Right To Vote! That's Not By Weird Al Central New York - The Place To Be! Mary, Saints, & Angels - Catholic Idolatry? Pray The Rosary Daily Real Women Respect Their Bodies Movie Ratings Need An Update Male-Bashing In Commercials - Enough Already! The Gravest Sin Geology: More Than Just Dirt And Rocks Christianity Requires An Open Mind Creationism And Evolution: One In The Same? Stop Using The R-Word Where Are The Girls In Glasses? Global Warming - Real Or Not? Women Priests In The Catholic Church Misconceptions About America Virgin Pride! Chastity: Securing And Ensuring Relationships And Marriage What's In A Nickname? Auburn Crows: Potential Eco-Tourism Animal Dissections: Unnecessary For General Education Chastity Versus Abstinence God In The Modern World MySpace Etiquette Can Internet Relationships Work? Love Beyond Skin Color Confirmation Is Not Graduation

My name is Valerie - not "Val" or "Valarie"...just Valerie. I've recently met a milestone in my education by achieving an Associates in Science degree, and I eagerly await what the future will hold for me. In two more years, I will have my Bachelors of Arts in Geology, my field of passion. I'm one of those devout Roman Catholics who baffle most people because I'm so heavily into the sciences. I feel that science gives us a better understanding and a better appreciation for the fascinating and mysterious universe God has created.
I'm going to be forthright (a new favorite word) and say that I am mentally ill. I suffer from a lifelong phobia, but I am slowly making progress. I owe a lot to Saint Jude, the patron saint of the impossible and of hopeless cases, for helping me with my mental problems and for helping me improve my life. Before he helped me, I was a very different and not so pleasant Valerie, and even now I still try to improve on many things. Sometimes I still fail, but I keep trying because nothing is ever truly hopeless.
I remember when I was younger, even a few years ago when I was in high school, and I'd create fantasies in my head or get lost in manga or anime to escape reality and boredom. However, I feel like an adult now because I no longer have such a great interest in those things. Instead, I find myself dreaming of my future - finishing school, working within the field of geology, getting married and starting a family, designing my future home, and publishing my books. Now, life is so much more fun than a mere fantasy!
My favorite words, starting with my most favorite, are "sprinkle(s)," "pickle(s)," and "proboscis." Other favored words include "surreptitiously" and "volatile." However, using them in a sentence while communicating with me will not earn you Valerie-points. You can gain Valerie-points by presenting me with a real pickle, rainbow sprinkles (not the spheres), a bat, and/or a hummingbird. One point for each separate object!

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

If you'd like, you may send me a friend request. However, please read over the following:

1.) If you send me a friend request, you MUST send an accompanying message with it. If you cannot be bothered to send a message, then I cannot be bothered to accept your friend request.

2.) Please introduce yourself - that is, give me your first name or whatever you prefer to be addressed as. Otherwise, I'll have to address you by whatever name I see in your profile.

3.) ENGLISH ONLY, PLEASE. I cannot understand Chinese nor any other non-romanized writing system. I can read French pretty well, and I know some American Sign Language, but that's pretty much it for my language proficiency.

4.) I am obviously already in a very happy and fulfilling relationship. That means I have no intentions of meeting someone new. The plain truth is that in my eyes, you will never measure up to my boyfriend. This means that you are forbidden from calling me "honey/hun," "babe," "baby," or anything like that. I am not your sweetheart, and I never will be. Don't hit on me, and don't send me a friend request because you think I'm cute or pretty.

My Blog

Confirmation Is Not Graduation

I've noticed a startling, if not annoying, trend of young people receiving the sacrament of Confirmation in the Catholic Church as a way to "graduate" from having to be Catholic or attend Mass and/or ...
Posted by on Wed, 17 Jun 2009 16:57:00 GMT

Love Beyond Skin Color

I cannot recall a single time when I have been attracted to a white male.  Every guy that I have liked or have almost had a relationship with was not white, and within the past few years, I've discove...
Posted by on Tue, 09 Jun 2009 23:09:00 GMT

Can Internet Relationships Work?

Years ago, I used to laugh at the eHarmony.com commercials on TV in disbelief that relationships through a computer could really last.  I was still somewhat in disbelief or at the most ambivalence abo...
Posted by on Wed, 20 May 2009 20:54:00 GMT

MySpace Etiquette

It is very sad that I have to post a blog on this, but the situation is getting ridiculous and disappointing that I need to say something to everyone.Sometimes, I really feel that people forget that t...
Posted by on Mon, 18 May 2009 17:38:00 GMT

God In The Modern World

We do not have to look far at all to find God.  Spirit quests, communing with nature and natural elements like wind and plants, or searching across the cosmos are all unnecessary.  The first place we ...
Posted by on Sun, 01 Mar 2009 12:18:00 GMT

Chastity Versus Abstinence

The words "chastity" and "abstinence" are often used interchangeably in reference to refraining from sexual activity, but they mean two different things.  More often today we hear "abstinence" being u...
Posted by on Tue, 17 Feb 2009 14:51:00 GMT

Animal Dissections: Unnecessary For General Education

I had the "pleasure" of being witness to a fetal pig dissection earlier this week in my Biology class.  In middle school, I dissected a worm and a frog, both of which were still unpleasant, and in hig...
Posted by on Wed, 28 Jan 2009 13:18:00 GMT

Auburn Crows: Potential Eco-Tourism

The city of Auburn in Central New York is home to an internationally-renowned American crow population, or murder, numbering up to and over 50,000 crows.  The crows roost mainly along the Owasco ...
Posted by on Sat, 27 Dec 2008 18:56:00 GMT

What’s In A Nickname?

Typically, nicknames and diminutives are personal and usually limited to those whom we are close to or know well.  Many people introduce themselves with their full name, then give their nickname ...
Posted by on Wed, 26 Nov 2008 13:13:00 GMT

Chastity: Securing And Ensuring Relationships And Marriage

Sex really does complicate - and ruin - relationships.  When you're so busy indulging in sex, you forget or don't think how important communication, understanding, and showing love in little yet ...
Posted by on Sun, 19 Oct 2008 14:12:00 GMT