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About Me


Hello I'm Daniel Conley and this is my personal website and blog. I'm just your simple, average, down to earth, professional, out gay man and aspiring to keep things in life simple, living just outside of Winston Salem, North Carolina with a few things to say while trying to find my place among all the scary, conservative, religious nuts in this sick and twisted world.
I can't say that I really have a terrific coming out story. I knew from a very young age that I was attracted to men and the thought of doing the nasty with a female was nasuating to say the least. My family knew first, but the reality didn't hit me till I was around 10 years old. Since then I have had not many, but several people that I have shared myself with.
Being young and stupid society forced me into having sex with a female. I guess you can say I needed conformation that I was infact gay. Needless to say that one event changed my life plans forever. After it was over I knew that I was attracted to men more then I had ever been.
I moved on with my life as a gay man till the brakes where slammed on causing me to come to a complete stop. The girl I had knocked boots with ended up pregnant!!! Yes, I was going to be a Dad. I was married to a female for a span of 12 years, it wasn't love but, was only because I was raised to do the right thing. This act of finding myself landed into a relationship that I was depressed and unhappy with. The only joy that I had was that durning the years that we were together was that is event had given me a daughter. Shortly there after our second daughter came into the picture. Was I staight? No, I just hid behind a marrage to keep society off my back. I still had my inner feelings of be attracted to men, but kept them fid for the sake of my children. Once the children were old enough to know what being gay was I was leaving to start over, and have the life that I felt God intended. for me to have. Mainly being happy!!!
I have been together with my Husband (Life Partner) for going on 7 years now. We have two girls from my first marraige. Most people wonder how can someone being Gay be Married to a women? Well, coming from a very religious background I was forced into dating females, and didn't have the option of being myself and true to who I was. Needless to say that I messed up and ending up having to marry for the childs sake. But, once my children were old enough to understand what being Gay was, I had left to start a new life on my own, and they came with me.
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Where, What and Why?

Many times we are faced with the diffuculty of wondering Where is my life going? What am I doing? and Why do I still allow things to control my life. The answer is simply. Because we are incharge of o...
Posted by Daniel D. Conley on Tue, 07 Oct 2008 12:32:00 PST

Wanted the Movie...

Last night we went to see the movie wanted with Scott our new friend. This movie is the bomb...I have to say that this movie was one of the best that I have seen in a long time. The realistic digital ...
Posted by Daniel D. Conley on Sun, 13 Jul 2008 04:13:00 PST

Life couldnt be better

Well, what can a person say but,......WOW!!! Life has been so much better for my family and I since we have moved to North Carolina. Now, we now what it is to have one...a life that is. Finally living...
Posted by Daniel D. Conley on Sun, 13 Jul 2008 04:02:00 PST

Celebration of Life

Yesterday was such a wonderful day. Spending time with our friends in celebration of the 4th of July by having a get together here at our home. Having spent the day with close and new friends had bee...
Posted by Daniel D. Conley on Sat, 05 Jul 2008 05:35:00 PST

Desperation in their eyes than desire....

Eyes are the window to the soul (or so they say) and on a recent trip to the night clubs in Winston and Greensboro, I saw into some souls that started me wondering. After forty, do gay men have more ...
Posted by Daniel D. Conley on Sat, 05 Jul 2008 06:10:00 PST

Friendships

Friendships Many time we find that little problems pop up when it comes to dealing with friend. Most of the time when a problem does surface it has to deal with communication, or just boundaries tha...
Posted by Daniel D. Conley on Mon, 23 Jun 2008 07:15:00 PST

Our Home

Our New Home This is a picture of our new house in Rural Hall, NC. It is a Doublewide Trailer with 3 bedrooms, and 2 baths. The house is setting on a 1/2 acre lot, it has a two car carport with a lar...
Posted by Daniel D. Conley on Fri, 06 Jun 2008 01:35:00 PST

About me

About Me: Well, where do I begin. First off I just want everyone to know that I am not your ordinary gay male. What I am saying that I am far from ordinary. Some might say that I am different then mo...
Posted by Daniel D. Conley on Thu, 29 May 2008 11:06:00 PST

What is my real job?

What is my real job? Most people know that I do some type of work in the Hospital, but what they keep asking? Well, my jobs is far from being simple to most people. I have been a Paramedic for over 12...
Posted by Daniel D. Conley on Tue, 20 May 2008 02:58:00 PST