Coley and Francine profile picture

Coley and Francine

I am here for Friends and Networking

About Me

One act, like a pebble thrown in water, will ripple out into larger and larger circles of influence. Never underestimate one act of courage, one act of kindness, or one act of sacrifice. The photos below are but a handful of lives touched and changed by one act...INTERVENTION. A life, a marriage, and a family, are rescued from the sinister grip of addiction. Countless generations are forever impacted. Thank You God, Thank you INTERVENTION, and thank you C.A.R.E Florida. If you have had a life changing moment because of someone else's kindness please share your story and add a picture if you like: email it to [email protected]

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Those who have felt the crushing hollowness of a life devastated by addiction, mental illness, death, loss, fear, shame, guilt, loneliness, emptiness, hopelessness, helplessness, and for those who can't hold on, who feel like giving up. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Please Please feel these words, just beneath the surface of your skin, where you can feel the whisper of a God who cares. Hope exists! We almost gave up once, actually many times. Too crippled to go on, fragile, weak, not even able to crawl to the next step, like little children, curled in a ball, trying hold on through the darkness, while thoughts of giving up, and suicide beat at the door of our will. Like lightening cracking through a tortured sky, breaking through the very lives we despised (our own), came the gentle awakening that God truly did care, and cared about us. We cannot tell you how it is that we understand that, but for those of us who have lived in the cold hell of traveling through a dark tunnel, wet, cold, endless, lonely and frightening, we understand the paralyzing numbing bitterness of feeling like there is nothing left, and nowhere left to go. YOUR LIFE, is precious. How do we know? We only know how worthless ours felt! We have beat off the thoughts that felt like cat fights in a paper bag, only to have them return. We have hope to share...."we are powerless over these things" But there is one who is not. Yes the seas of crushing waves of pain beating down on us, nearly drowned us. But there is a God who calmed the seas....HE CALMED THE SEAS.. (the storms, the hurricanes of our life)... If we could only hold you till the storms passed, and hold you till you were safe...but HE can, God can!!!!!!!! it takes but one gentle quiet cry ...."I am powerless over this, and my life is unmanagable"....."I need you God, a power greater than me to restore me to, or to even give me, the sanity I have never had". That prayer is not mine, but one of a very special man who found that the power of God was the only thing that could pluck so many of us from the long reaching fingers of addiction, and mental illness that can wrap itself around the soul. He is there for the broken hearted. For those who are broken, he brings peace..Mathew 5 ....................

My Blog

what I learned from my elbow

18 months ago, while Coley was in treatment, I decided to ride my dirt bike at sunset. I was the only one out on the sand dunes (first mistake), except my son (who waited patiently in the truck). "Jus...
Posted by on Wed, 05 Nov 2008 01:18:00 GMT

POST YOUR STORY...it could save a life

You have a message of  experience, strength, hope. You have a story. We are reaching out to a society of  lives crippled by pain, abuse, abandonment, addictioin, loneliness, fear, anxiety, h...
Posted by on Mon, 26 May 2008 17:58:00 GMT

PUT YOUR OXYGEN MASK ON FIRST

PUR YOUR OXYGEN MASK ON FIRST!!!!!If you have a loved who has become the prisoner of addiction, we know your gut wrenching sorrow; and we have shed the endless tears that soak your pillow each night, ...
Posted by on Fri, 23 May 2008 09:31:00 GMT

OUT OF CONTROL (not what you think)

I am indicting myself. I want to admit the anger (that sometimes became rage), the conscience searing frustration, impatience, fatigue, fear, sorrow, and resentment, and overall emotional errupti...
Posted by on Fri, 23 May 2008 00:43:00 GMT