To those who Have HATED/DISLIKED/ENVY'D everything about me for no reason My Message To You:
Continue to admire the Beauty because I'm never Changing who I am & it's going to take a lifetime before you can get like me. So why waste it? Your main focus should be you.
Aspiring Singer/Songwriter A Mother, Child, Sister, Friend, Lover Of Many Things But most of all I'm Me! God Fearing and Honest About Everything. I am A person who is willing to give, never expecting anything in return. A woman of Virtue, Wisdom, Knowledge & Truth.Blessed & Highly Favored, Grateful, Giving, Loving, Caring, Trustworthy, Loyal, Beautiful & Sexy, Courageous, Out going, Fun & Most of all Drama Free!My life and what a life it is, is under reconstruction; In the meantime I will be making changes that will better prepare me for the challenges to come & the Future.Wanting to thank everyone who has played a part in my life whether Positive or Negative; I made me who I am today and you helped along the way.I can honestly say that I know I am not perfect & I have made a many mistakes in my life; Sometimes situations come about & it causes you to change who are for a split second & it doesn't look so good! My apologies to anyone who have ever been affected by my words & actions.Liked by Few, Loved by Many, Hated by Some, & Confronted by None..... A good friend to all who allows me to be!At the end of the day I have to be a positive example to those who look up to me, that look at me & My family.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Ask yourself these QuestionsWhy do some people LOVE living there lives for DRAMA??Why won't people understand that DRAMA is not good for your HEALTH?Why do people concern themselves with other peoples drama & mess when they have NOTHING to do with it?Why do people BRING you mess & instead of IGNORING - you somehow get sucked into it?Why can't people see that you have to deal with ONE mess at a time - DON'T PICK UP other mess!!!Why can't we all just love each other without the back stabbing, lying, cheating, hurting or using?Why is it when you love people SOMETIMES - THEY NEVER EVER LOVE YOU BACK!!Pain is the weakness leaving your body - even thought that HURTS you have to let it take it's course!!!****************((PLEASE READ))*****************If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man & his behavior.Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve. "Let it go!" So when you seperate you can maintain "a friendship" especially when there are children involved. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?Always have your own set of friends separate from his.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-God. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.Never borrow a man that belongs to someone else. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street.You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage!!!Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.My Words of Advise To You![LOVEMYFLASH]
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Aspiring Singer/Songwriter A Mother, Child, Sister, Friend, Lover Of Many Things But most of all I'm Me! God Fearing and Honest About Everything. I am A person who is willing to give, never expecting anything in return. A woman of Virtue, Wisdom, Knowledge & Truth.Blessed & Highly Favored, Grateful, Giving, Loving, Caring, Trustworthy, Loyal, Beautiful & Sexy, Courageous, Out going, Fun & Most of all Drama Free!My life and what a life it is, is under reconstruction; In the meantime I will be making changes that will better prepare me for the challenges to come & the Future.Wanting to thank everyone who has played a part in my life whether Positive or Negative; I made me who I am today and you helped along the way.I can honestly say that I know I am not perfect & I have made a many mistakes in my life; Sometimes situations come about & it causes you to change who are for a split second & it doesn't look so good! My apologies to anyone who have ever been affected by my words & actions.Liked by Few, Loved by Many, Hated by Some, & Confronted by None..... A good friend to all who allows me to be!At the end of the day I have to be a positive example to those who look up to me, that look at me & My family.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Ask yourself these QuestionsWhy do some people LOVE living there lives for DRAMA??Why won't people understand that DRAMA is not good for your HEALTH?Why do people concern themselves with other peoples drama & mess when they have NOTHING to do with it?Why do people BRING you mess & instead of IGNORING - you somehow get sucked into it?Why can't people see that you have to deal with ONE mess at a time - DON'T PICK UP other mess!!!Why can't we all just love each other without the back stabbing, lying, cheating, hurting or using?Why is it when you love people SOMETIMES - THEY NEVER EVER LOVE YOU BACK!!Pain is the weakness leaving your body - even thought that HURTS you have to let it take it's course!!!*************((PLEASE READ))**************If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man & his behavior.Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve. "Let it go!" So when you seperate you can maintain "a friendship" especially when there are children involved. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?Always have your own set of friends separate from his.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-God. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.Never borrow a man that belongs to someone else. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street.You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage!!!Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.My Words of Advise To You!
