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Thomas

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships and Friends

About Me

I'm here for friends, I am not a player nor do i want to be, If you need a booty call don't ask me unless your really hot and ready to pay for dinner "JK". I don't have time for games or drama, been there done that...I am divorced (i hate that word) with two grown children, one girl and one boy. My daughter is happily married and my son who currently lives at home will soon move to Columbus. I have a great job, shower daily and have all of my own teeth. I believe we should all have goals, live life as happily as we can with no regrets, and don't sweat the petty stuff.
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Don’t wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what, get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger, more skilled, self confident and more successful.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

everybody! except slackers,bigots,haters,cheaters,liers,OR FUCKING DRAMA QUEENS!Random thoughts…I believe in God, Jesus, and the Holy Sprit. I believe you cannot rely on someone to make you happy, if you do you will be disappointed. You are responsible for your own happiness. My glass is half full, not half empty. It is good to give without expecting anything in return. Trust is an absolute must. You should not try to change someone to meet your needs. Laundry is no big deal and cooking can be fun. Laughter is good for the soul. It is common courtesy to open a door for a woman. Women are equal and not required to obey men in a relationship.How can one truly define what love is. Not even an experienced person can truly grasp or explain love to it's truest and deepest meaning. It's concepts are just a never ending story of an open book of experiences. But love does lie in one's heart, where memories are but shadows lingering in your soul.I am not an expert in love however I think love is a whole lot more than whom you live with or whom you can't live without. Love is special, it is the sharing of two people without reservation. Certanly when you are in Love you want to be with that person more than anything else in the world. We must be careful we do not depend on the other person too much, we are responsible for our own happiness and if we rely on it from someone else we will eventually be dissapointed. Love is unconditional. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love.Accepting those you love for who they are is part of love. You also need to learn to accept yourself before you can accept another. If you cannot love yourself, how are you to love another? People in love are sensitive to each other's needs, and endeavor to meet them even when they do not feel like doing it. Love is the most valuable commodity in the world. We all need love just like a fish needs water. Without love, life would not be worth living. With love in our lives, we are empowered beyond belief. Without love in our lives we will shrivel up and die a slow, painful and lonely death. Love is the very essence and core of our being. It is the energy that sustains who and what we are. Everyone in life has a deep-rooted desire to love and be loved.

My Blog

"Portrait of a Friend"

"Portrait of a Friend"I can't give solutions to all of life's problems, doubts, or fears. But I can listen to you, and together we will search for answers.I can't change your past with all it's hearta...
Posted by on Thu, 09 Oct 2008 17:42:00 GMT

Feeling stressed or down?? Read this!

Should you find it hard to get to sleep tonight;Just remember the homeless family who has no bed to lie in.Should you find yourself stuck in traffic;Don't despair. There are people in this world for w...
Posted by on Fri, 26 Sep 2008 21:21:00 GMT

MENS RULES FOR WOMEN

We always hear "the rules"  from the female side.   Now here are the rules from the male side.   These are our rules!   Please note... these are all numbered "1" ON PURPOSE! 1. Men...
Posted by on Thu, 26 Jan 2006 17:14:00 GMT