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Ben Valdez

I am here for Dating, Friends and Networking

About Me

My name is Ben. I am something new and something old. I am an unwritten story, but have already been told. I am a son and brother. I am a dreamer and a sexual lover. I admire woman and how God created their perfect bodies. I am a sinner and a saint...a canvas with no paint. I am intricate and shallow. I am anything and everything you might need me to be, but so lost I can not see...
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My Interests

I'll take chance over destiny any day. I enjoy all types of music, and it's chill to just sit there and listen to it; even more fun when you listen to it with someone else who hears the lyrics and feels them exactley like you do. I like to meet new people, party like wanna be rock stars with my best friends Rob, Colt, Roy and Junior. Pretty much just an open book.

I'd like to meet:

Elvis. Dewey Cox. Jesus. God. The Holy Spirit. Myself. oh and of course Barack Obamma.View All Friends | View Blog | Add Comment

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Music:

The Stones, The Doors, Jimi Henderix, Black Sabbath, Bob Dylan, The Used, Sublime, The Postal Service, The Walkmen, The Killers, Patrick Park, Dashboard, Finley Quaye, The White Stripes, Smashing Pumpkins, The Strokes, Rooney, The Cure, The Clash, The Sex Pistols, The Ramones, The 88, Nada Surf, Tom Petty and the Heart Breakers, Coheed, Matchbox Romance, My Chemical Romance, Bright Eyes, Belle and Sebastian, Modest Mouse, Jimmy Edwards, AC/DC, .... Music is an addiction-shoot me up.

Movies:

Rocky, Good Fella's, The Godfather, Blow, Giant, I have a bunch.

Television:

I don't watch much, but I do enjoy seeing Paris and Nichole on the simple life, and I love Dave Chapelle.

Books:

The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Crank, Me Talk Pretty One Day, A Million Little Pieces, Burning in Water-Drowning in Flames. A lot more.

Heroes:

My dad. If you could imagine the epitome of what a man was and should be it would be my dad Jim. If I grew up to be half the husband, half the father, half the man... he was... i would consider myself very fortunate.

My Blog

What the Fuck

I want to party with Mick Jagger, and get punched by Bubba Sparks. I want to do drugs in parking lots.  I want to be sober like the nuns. I want to fly like flamingo. I want to win toliet paper a...
Posted by Ben Valdez on Wed, 09 Jul 2008 02:19:00 PST

absolutley meaningless

I want to tell you everything, without speaking at all. I want to write you letters in words you will only know. Tell you all about the things that have and been. The things that are neither here nor...
Posted by Ben Valdez on Wed, 09 Jul 2008 02:08:00 PST

So...

So I find myself writing again. Maybe this time I will actually post it. I have had writers block for way to long. It is like a melody without a song. Did I just run out of things to say, or do I just...
Posted by Ben Valdez on Sun, 18 May 2008 03:06:00 PST

brothers

no matter what i love my brother robby thornbrough........ and my brother adam flores....  those guys will always be dear to me....
Posted by Ben Valdez on Sat, 12 Apr 2008 11:38:00 PST

rant pt 1

I hate the way you smell.... it reminds me of good sex. I hate the way that I wait for you, just because dreams are free...and there you are,not fucking there.... and you will say, that it was all ok....
Posted by Ben Valdez on Fri, 21 Mar 2008 03:34:00 PST

Poets, Astronauts, and Roofers

I sit here listing to Bob Dylan and I realize what an amazing poet he is. Then I think that I should have been a poet or a astronaut, or perhaps a roofer, any of those occupations in which make paren...
Posted by Ben Valdez on Sun, 24 Feb 2008 03:43:00 PST

2041692

you know what it means.
Posted by Ben Valdez on Tue, 12 Feb 2008 01:31:00 PST

2041692

you know what it means.
Posted by Ben Valdez on Tue, 12 Feb 2008 01:31:00 PST

Did you vote today?

Well, let's see... I know I did.... So if Barack doesn't take California primaries.... I will see myself at the bottom of the bluffs...
Posted by Ben Valdez on Wed, 06 Feb 2008 05:51:00 PST

Coltaluchi

one year around the sun without you here. Anniversaries make playing pretend hard. Especially when I want to think you are in Redding again, going for ever, only to be back a week later. You always kn...
Posted by Ben Valdez on Tue, 18 Dec 2007 10:21:00 PST