As a friend:
Just about anyone. Male, Female. Straight, Gay... as long as you aren't someone who likes hurting others you're alright by me.
I tend to usually like everyone in one way or another.
There are the friends you like to kick it mellow style at home with watching movies or playing video games,
There are the wild crazy ones that are a blast to party with,
Then you have the in the middle friends.. those are the ones I like best.
Age isn't important to me for friends either.
I have friends way younger than me, as well as way older.
People are people are people are people are people, people!
Also... I'd REALLY like to meet a serious wine enthusiast... TEACH ME THE WAYS!!!!!
(god I love wine).
As a lover:
A guy who isn't fem, likes aggressive loud music, and will never ever ever consider putting on a dress. (unless it's a costume of course).
otherwise, *shrugs*
Someone who can handle me! I'm not hard to please, but easy to displease if that makes sense.
Someone who needs me, but doesn't ALWAYS need me, ya dig?
Someone who won't tell me what I can or can't do. (such as go to the bar, or hang with a friend or two, or whatever).
Pretty much meaning someone who isn't demanding, insecure, or controlling, and is patient, loving, and cares about how others feel.
someone who loves all types of music, and movies for that matter.
if I wanna listen to 36 Crazyfists and watch a horror flick, I wanna know he'll be there just the same as if it's Tori Amos and a chick flick.
(I'd do the same).
he must love movies...
he must love cartoons...
he must AT LEAST like The Beatles...
he must either love 420, or at least be cool with it...
he must be able to make me smile...
he must want to have kids, and love my baby nephew like his own...
he must NEVER get sick of pizza, or at least it's smell 'cause I LOVE PIZZA!
he must never be physically violent with me.
it helps if he's a bottom as well... heh.
and I think that's about it.