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Mrs. B Haven

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..I never believed in love at first sight then you came into my life and the moment I saw you I knew it can happen. The way you look at me makes me shiver. My heart beats faster and I want the whole world to know how much I love you. When we can't be together it feels like a part of me is missing. But then you call me and tell me how much you miss me and I feel like the most loved woman in the world. You Are so incredible and special and every moment we share together, you show me how wonderful love can be. I know this feeling will last forever. You are the love of my life!A few months ago you asked me, “If I were to be straded on a desereted island what three things would i take?...”I could never answer that until now. First, I would take my past because without that I would not be who I am today and I would not be here with you, Next, I would take my present. Because there is no where else in the world that I would rather be than right here with you Last, my future...When I look into your eyes I see a future of happiness, a future of hope, a future of family, I see a future of us together. I can not stand here today and promise days without pain I cant promise that every day will be as happy as this one. I cant promise, living with three girls days without drama.I can promise that the happy days will outway the sad and the good days will outway the bad! I promise to do my best at keeping drama to a minimun. I promise to support you, respect you, be faithful and love you for the rest of my time on this earth.As I give you my hand to hold, I give you my life to keep!I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts. I've learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you'd better know something. I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do. I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it. I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides. I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think. I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them. I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't. I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you. I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice. I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it. I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score. I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up. I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love. I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated. I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself. I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief. I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. I've learned that if you don't want to forget something, stick it in your underwear drawer. I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever. I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I've learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love. I've learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves, get farther in life. I've learned that many things can be powered by the mind, the trick is self-control. I've learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most. I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you. I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help. I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon. I've learned that although the word "love" can have many different meaning, it loses value when overly used. I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.

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My Wedding Vows

I never believed in love at first sight thenyou came into my life and the moment I sawyou I knew it can happen. The way you lookat me makes me shiver. My heart beats fasterand I want the whole world t...
Posted by on Tue, 05 May 2009 05:38:00 GMT

I Have Learned

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back...
Posted by on Tue, 17 Feb 2009 20:42:00 GMT

I BELIEVE

 Stole This From My Friend Dog Who Stole It From His Friend  ~Cj's~ page :-) and IDGAF hahaha i like it Thanks Dog &~Cj~ I believe the money I make belongs to me and my family, not some...
Posted by on Thu, 23 Oct 2008 13:25:00 GMT

Everlast

Everlast is unconditional, unending, and shared between two people who's world is the other. It is finding your soulmate, sharing the same ideas and dreams.  It is great sex, good conversation an...
Posted by on Sat, 26 Jul 2008 09:45:00 GMT