GET AT ME...IF A MAN WANTS YOU..Something for the Ladies to think about ..> IF A MAN WANTS YOU..Something for the Ladies to think about I did not write this but it is something for the ladies to read and think about?? Real Talk IF A MAN WANTS YOU If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT.............. ..> "Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman, but luckier is the woman who is the last love of a man.Something that We all need to hear and remember to never take a woman for granted."
WELL A LITTLE UPDATE ON MYSELF WHAT DO A MAN DO WHEN HE HAS TWO WOMEN .THE FRIST WOMEN HAS A MAN THATS IN JAIL SHE IS REALLY FUCKED UP OVER YOU .SHE REALLY FEELING YOU ALL THE WAY .THEN YOU GOT THIS OTHER GIRL SOON AS YOU SEEN HER YOU LOVED EVERYTHING BOUT HER AND SHE IS GOOD PEOPLE ,AT FIRST SHE ACT LIKE SHE HAS A MAN BUT YOU DONT GIVE UP ON HER .THEN SHE TELL YOU SHE REALLY DONT HAVE A MAN .THEN SHE START TO SEEM TO BE MORE IN TO YOU EVERYDAY .I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT IM TRYING TO SAY .I KNOW ONE THING GIRL NUMBER ONE AND TWO HAVE NO KIDS AT ALL SO THATS THE GOOD THING
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