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NesSa

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships and Friends

About Me

Hey whats up my name is Vanessa....im from NYC reppin Brooklyn and Rincon, Puerto Rico....imma pretty laid back person....just like to chill with friends and the family....well all I can say is that im not here for no myspace lovey dovey shet....but if u interested in makin a new friend...feel free to holl@ at ya girl...

My Interests

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I'd like to meet:

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.Never borrow someone else's man.Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. a man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Music:

Salsa, Merengue, Bachata, Hip hop, R n B , Reggaeton... De todo un poco...

Heroes:

I miss you so much, your laugh, your smile, your touch. You always brightened my days with all the smiles you sent my way. I need you as my angel to always be at my side. I need you as my angel to give me peace of mind. I like to think your near to me to know that you are there. Even though I can not see you, I feel that you are near. Please do not forget me mom, for you are always in my heart, my thoughts and prayers. I love you. Mommy Te Extraño with all my heart...RIP 9/15/2007 Mama Te Extraño y ahora estaras feliz en el cielo con Mami R.I.P. 11/19/2007

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