Michelle Facey

Hi and welcome, thanks so much for stopping by. I hope something in here inspires you or makes you laugh and hopefully some of my “friends” will become your friends too.
About me….well do you really care? I am unlike anyone you will ever meet. I am complicated or is it complex…..hhhmmm…lol, anyway chances are if you were really ever to meet me, it’s probably safe to say that after a few minutes, maybe even a few hours, if you are like the general population, you will probably dislike me because my raw honesty and inability to be fake and superficial will offend your ego and shock you. However if you are in the rare few who actually are real, then get to know me from my blogs or not. For those of you who already know me, life is sweeetttt!!! Either way, enjoy the pics, and remember; you only get one chance to make a good first impression so smile.
For those of you interested, here is a little taste of me: I enjoy life as it comes to me. I have learned a lot along this amazing journey we call life that has disconcerted me. But I have internalized and analyzed it to be what it is. S**t happens, nothing you can do but keep on keeping on. I am very sharp and see things and people the way they really are, not the way they pretend to be. I feel that it takes way more energy to be a nasty person than to just approach life with a positive outlook.
I enjoy a very small select group of friends, traveling and theatre...Avenue Q Rocks! At the end of the day I am a very down to earth person. I am a leader not a follower, but I can be a team player as long as you know what you are talking about. I love adventure. I am an eclectic person. I love all genres of music. I love concerts, movies, dancing, go-cart racing, sailing, porn, amusement parks, jeeps, the wind blowing through my hair when in a convertible, cirque du soleil, white zinfandel, vodka, observing and analyzing people, beaches with character and clear blue water where I can see my feet. I love Japanese inspired food and décor. In my next life I want to be my version of a Geisha.
I am fascinated by the fact that we fly in a giant tin pan called an airplane; they are stunning pieces of work. I love horses, magnificent creatures. I love to laugh and am turned on by funny, self-confident, honest, vivacious people. I appreciate the beauty in all things and people. I am creative. I am passionate about the things I love. I love to drink water...best drink ever! Puppies are priceless and so adorable. Anything cute and cuddly wins my heart. Fairies are beautiful and ethereal. Mr. Bean & Benny Hill are hysterical... love those Brits! Cheers!
Betty Boop is sexy as are the 4 Jessica’s: Biel, Alba, Simpson & Rabbit. Kate Beckinsale, Raquel Welch and Sophia Loren are timeless beauties, David Beckham…can u say yummy, I would never kick him out of my bed. Stewie Griffin should be my kid, he rocks!
The most important thing about me: I am not afraid of anyone. I am blessed! What you see with me is what you get. With me you will always know where you stand. I tell it like it is and do what I want without being hurtful to others. I am as real as they get and if you can’t handle that or my honesty, then that is your burden to deal with. I deeply respect and admire someone who can stimulate me with interesting conversation instead of all the trival superficial things most people feel they need to speak about. I am not one for idle chatter as I believe people who talk alot are simply insecure and or conceited so they like the sound of their own voice and need attention. I am a woman of my word. I stand by what I say I am going to do. I have an abundance of honor, respect, integrity and morals where people, life and right from wrong is concerned. I am thankful for all the wonderful things about life and never take any of it for granted. I answer to no one, God sees what I do everyday.
Here are some of my favorite sayings and some of my personal beliefs that I live my life by:
•“When confused remember, everyone seems normal until you get to know them.”
•“Some people are like slinkies…not really good for anything, but they bring a smile to your face when pushed down the stairs.”
•“I think therefore I’m single.”
•“I am a VICTOR not a victim!”
•“Great, mind-blowing unforgettable sex comes from an emotional connection. Casual, meaningless, feel good, just to get your rocks of sex, stems from the ego and selfishness. You can have that with anyone, even a hooker.”
•“People do think that if they avoid the truth, it might change to something better before they have to hear it.”
•“Never burn your bridges, life is funny thing and the universe will always find a way to bring karma back to you.”
•“Men know they are sexual exiles. They wonder the earth seeking satisfaction, craving and despising, never content. There is nothing in that anguished notion for women to envy.”
•“Life is like a circle, everything you do, comes back to you.”
•“There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won’t anymore, and who always will. So don’t worry about people from your past, there’s a reason why they didn’t make it to your future.”
•“In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different.”
• “I meditate, I do yoga, I chant and I STILL want to smack someone.”
•“Keep in mind that no matter how cute and sexy a guy is, there’s always some woman somewhere who’s sick of him.”
•“All you’ll get from a stranger is surface pleasantry or indifference. Only someone who loves you will criticize you.”
•“Be bold in what you stand for and careful what you fall for.”
•“Live hard, love hard, work hard & Party Like a ROCK STAR!”
•“When a person doesn’t want to change, when somebody doesn’t want to be helped, we do him or her a disservice by delivering them out of all their problems…Yes, we should help the needy, but there comes a point where if you continue to help somebody who refuses to try to help themselves, you are actually hurting them more than you’re helping them.”
•“Remember if people talk behind your back, it only means you’re two steps ahead!”
•“Poor is the man whose pleasure depends on another’s permission.”
•“I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they’re right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.”
•“Freedom is not the right to do what we want; but what we ought.”
•“The past is history, the future is a mystery, and this moment is a gift. That is why this moment is called ‘the present’.”
•“Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to their option.”
•“People who love to blame others, simply do so to relieve their own guilt.”
•“If you want to know where you are going to be in five years from now, listen to your words. You are prophesying your future. If you want to be stronger, healthier, happier, if you want to break addictions, then start declaring it right now.”
•“’Normal’ is getting dressed in clothes that you buy for work and driving through traffic in a car you still paying for-in order to get to the job you need to pay for the clothes and the car and the house you leave vacant all day so you can afford to live in it.”
•“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”
•“You get what you give.”
•“You can’t knowingly do something wrong and expect to be forgiven for it.”
•“You cannot hang out with negative people and expect to live a positive life…Sometimes the best thing you can do is break away from negative people and put yourself in a healthy, positive, faith-filled environment.”
•“Don’t ever let “good enough” be good enough. Keep pressing. Keep believing. You were not made to be average; you were made to excel. You were made to leave your mark on this generation. At the start of each day, remind yourself: “I am talented. I am creative. I am greatly favored by God (or whomever you believe in). I am equipped. I am well able. I am beautiful inside and out. I will see my dreams come to pass.” Declare those statements with passion and conviction and before long, you will begin to see them in reality.”
•“I am the reality to your fantasy.”
•“You have to give respect to get respect.”
•“Sorry is just a word that means nothing if you aren't saying it with positive emotion or from the heart.”
•“Change: we don't like it, we fear it, but we can't stop it from coming. We either adapt to change or we get left behind. And it hurts to grow, anybody who tells you it doesn't is lying. But here's the truth: the more things change, the more they stay the same. And sometimes, oh sometimes, change is good. Oh sometimes, change is...everything!”
•“Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. I am fascinated by and secretly smile to myself at the people who love to take my ideas or the things I say and use them and try to pass them off as their own. Thanks for thinking so much of me.”
•“Real genuine compassion is the highest form of being a decent human being. You can't say you are a compassionate person and then turn around and speak negatively about someone. Sorry to inform you, but that cancels out the compassion. You can’t say you are genuinely compassionate but then turn around and be rude to people or ignore then, sorry once again, it cancels out your illusion of being compassionate. Compassion is about giving of your self freely and purely without expecting anything in return. It is also about allowing a person to be who they are and what they are. It is about accepting people exactly as they are. It is about never judging and being able to forgive, after all no one is perfect”
•“If you can't learn at least one thing each day, no matter how small a thing it may be, then you have wasted one precious day of your life.”
•“People who lie suffer from a serious personality defect. They lie because they are insecure, selfish and self-absorbed. In order to appear more important and interesting than they really are, they lie.”
•“I’ve seen people jump into a relationship or jump into a business deal that they don’t feel good about, but they wanted it so badly. The universe is kind; if you insist it will back off and let you do things your way. Most of the time when we do that, though, we end up settling for second best and just repeating the same mistakes over and over.”
•“Have fun each day and be true to yourself. Life is too short, live it as if it is your last, you never know when it will be taken away from you.”
•“Everything that is happening at this moment is a result of the choices you’ve made in the past.”
•“When your internal reference point is the ego, when you seek power and control over other people or seek approval from others, you spend energy in a wasteful way.”
•“I heard somebody say there’s something called “the gift of good-bye.” That means when somebody who is pulling you down chooses to leave, you may not realize it, but he just did you a great favor. Don’t look back; instead keep looking forward. Get ready for the new thing God (or whomever you believe in), wants to do in your life.”..