About Me
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II aLaNtRaN II
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Theres gonna be some stuff u gonna see
thats gonna make it hard
to smile in the future..
but through whatever you see,
through all the rain
and the pain
you gotta keep your sense of humor..
you gotta be able to smile
through all this bullshit...
remember that..
- TUPAC T.H.U.G. L.I.F.E.
"The Hate U Gave Lil Infants Fu..ks Everybody"
"What you feed us as seeds,
grows & then
blows up in your face, that's Thug Life"
-Tupac"Persue your goals with a passion & never let life slow you down. -Tupac Amaru Shakur"
..For me..time has definitley passed by & as days go by I realize more & more each day of life of how much it is & life's really a journey.. a endless journey... where anything can happen & looking back at my life so far..so much has happend & all I see is changes till this very day. In life i realize we all make mistakes & lookin back at it, it's all stupid mistakes & things we never noticed of until it happened & now we learn from it & for those who really learned from it know that they know dam well not to do it again. Mistakes are part of life..learn from your mistakes & don't let it come back again the 2nd time. I think everyone should try to make the best of it & better. Regardless of time & how long it was ago. If you tried, just know that you've had the encouragement to make it better in the first place The other part in making it better is if the other person is willing to also do the same....Life's too short...don't waste time..think about it...time really fly's..make the best of it & live life to the fullest... -alan.tran-
If you respect me, I'll respect you in return. If not, I have the ability to get crazy on your ass, so beware! HAHA! JP.. Otherwise, I'm a happy-go-lucky guy that loves to laugh & have a good time & make things the best of it. That's what life is all about, right? I'm such a workaholic. Gotta keep up with my bad spending habits. =0P
.....Some things about me would be that I'm a mellow individual, I believe that life depends on our outlooks, and what we make of it. Im an attentive, considerate (Opinioned by: Ada Lee) , opinionated, sincere, ambitious, logical, broadminded, extrovert personality, practical, and thoughtful individual. I don't critic a persons individuality by assuming without reasonable facts. To me, knowing someone is one thing, really understanding someone is another. Im an analytical being good, but I tend to overlook the practicality of life, by being so query. Yes, I believe things happen for a reason. I despise deceitfulness, and action speaks louder than words. I'm a direct person, I state what I have in mind without hesitation sometimes, I may appear to be brutally honest, but I expect likewise. Im open minded & here to listen. I love simple things in life & I'm extremely thankful for what's upon & what I'm given & try to make the best of it through the rough & good times & try 2 Keep my head up. To my friends and family Im someone they can count on, when no else is there, someone to turn to & I give it my all to help, listen & be there. I do not treat everyone equally, nor do I give everybody the same level of respect, they would have to earn them & I do believe that you should treat others how you want to be treated. I believe we ALL make ALOT of mistakes in life in different ways along with regrets...but thing that we have to learn from our mistakes & don't do it again. I realized a lot in life now & yes there are regrets from my past that I wish I could change. Don't we all at a point in life in the past? Those regrets are what I realize & it's a lesson, things happened for a reason & sometimes we all question why it happend & could it have been changed. I believe that Sometimes, things that already happened has passed but perhaps we can have some encouragement & try to at least make it a lilttle better than before or at least communicate, then we'll know that it's not the end. The decision is also up to the other person & what they want to do & how they feel about it. Hope.
.....If life was to be so lucid, then we wouldnt have room to grow, no place for realization, learn our mistake and no point of living life. Obstacles are upon to enlighten our thoughts, and to be kept as a future reference and learn from them. I can be a listener and a good advisor you choose. I can talk about anything & yet the time to it is endless. Just start with something & we can go from there. TRUST is a must, without Trust you cannot go on. I'm patient, but don't push me to the limit, understanding but don't push my buttons. I stand by my words as well as I stand by my ground, though Im a little indecisive, a bit hesitant because I try to makes things right, but I know when I'm wrong and I admit it & well all make mistakes, but thing is that we also have to understand it clearly & learn from it. I can be playful, but I can be serious when I need to be. I'm random type of person, easily distracted & so on....I can talk about anything that comes to subject & if opinion is asked I will tell it as it is if they really want me to. (Words can never say enough about an individual, so never judge hastily).
.....Others may find me a bit complicated, but yet Im very simple. Like I said before: "knowing someone is one thing, understanding someone is another" and to really understand someone is to take the next step in knowing them and go from there, Trust. Hmm iuno what else to say...but really to know me & understand you would be a friend first & let's see how real you can be & prove.
Take care & Thank You for your time. If anything else just let me know & ask. Till den, best thing to get to know someone is personally to learn to know them urself.
Life's is what you make of it, you can't have everything given to you. You want something? You gotta work for it & do what you gotta do, along with that comes with all the rain & the pain. In life you have to try, if you fall you must get back up to try again & don't give up. You already failed if u've never gave it a try.
L♥ve isn't perfect. It isn't a fairytale or a storybook, and it doesn't always come easy. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges fighting to be together, holding on and never letting go it is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define, impossible to live without Love is work, but most of all, Love is realizing that every hour, every minute, every second of it was worth it because you did it ... TOGETHER.
"Say what you want to say when you have the feelings and the chance. Tomorrow may be a day too late. Our deepest regrets may be the things we didn't do, the opportunities missed, and the things left unsaid."
Much ♥ Always
~~*((:.. Alan Tran ..:))*~~