About Me
Layout by CoolChaserAlright.....lets see, how can I do this without it sounding like I'm signing up for Eharmony. I know, I'll list the goods, but (WOW)...I'll also list the bads too.....here we go, hold on tight (literally). I'm a very sweet guy with a bad attitude/temper at times, but seriously only to the people that feel the need to test me, I'm fine with people who can just be chill with me and not take my joking so seriously. I am very very sarcastic for funny purposes and at times can use it negatively. I forgive but never forget. I have a huge problem saying "NO" which is ironic, cause isn't that the first thing they teach you to say in school (props to D.A.R.E.) I've put myself in bads spots cause I just cant say no (but Im working on that) I'll do anything for anyone at anytime, the only thing I like in return is ....to be appreciated for it, I don't think thats too much to ask, and its FREE. I have great ambition and a creative mind, but I don't always apply myself the way I should. I have a great sense of humor, at times being the butt of a joke will ensure we all get a good laugh. I love to dance ...anything from Country Line Dancing at a bar to Hip-Hop in the clubs. I LOVE to eat out, prefer it more than cooking, but I do know how to cook and when I'm feeling romantic, I can whip those skills into gear. I work third shift for management at the casino then go home to a second job in a wire mill.....what does this mean...it means I get moody real quick...haha. I have a great family and wonderful friends who surround me, who genuinely care. Oh yeah, I am a Diabetic and have been for 15 years, which also contributes to my moodiness....and I cant forget I'm a CANCER, the mother sign....being a Cancer is the worst thing for me...I can get emotional, angry, panicky, happy, and full of life....yupe and sometimes all at once, I'm not kidding. I can go over the top at times in getting myself worked up....but a few minutes alone to cool off, works wonders for me. Lets see.... bad things I've been called...."Controlling", I guess I can take control of a situation from time to time, but most of the time I just come across wrong....I don't want the ones closest to me to fall face first, so I try to guide and lead (hence the management of 12 years in me). "Asshole".....oh I definitely can be, especially towards the ones I love, after all there the ones that hurt you the most and once my feelings are hurt....World War III. "Very Sweet"... I like to buy things for people (its part of my problem of being taken advantage of) if I go to the stores with intentions of getting myself something, but then see something someone else would love.....I buy it for them....every fricken time I have my ups and downs like everyone else, but for some reason more now than ever....I wear my feelings on my sleeve. I feel at times I'm very hard to please, more so in relationships, but everyone throws that line at you "You just haven't found the perfect one"......whatever. I don't live in a dream world and think realistically, I don't sugar coat things...tough love is what I call it, I'm a Navy brat....its the only way I know how. I love the Fall weather,I'm a hard worker but can be very lazy, I love to be outdoors, but also can curl up on the couch or my bed with a warm blanket, cup of soup, and hot cider and watch a movie. I love to do group things with family and or friends. I'm not into the drug scene, its not for me and I don't get caught up in it. I HATE drama...just want to go have a good time and not have to hear the crying and whining. I am on the other hand a great listener....as long as you can take some advice or apply it to your situation, other than that why ask me? I get along with everyone.....except those who judge before getting to know you first....to get respect you need to know how to give it. I guess in summary...I have my flaws that very few know of and that at times stops me in my track...I'm not perfect in anyway, but I've lasted 29 years doing it this way so it cant be all that bad. Just grab the Bull by the horns and go for the ride.......I guarantee it will be the ride of your life....
