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Muffins

I am here for Friends

About Me

I need more people in my life who are capable of having a conversation.

I take everything personally... but I usually take it as a joke. Sometimes I feel like this world is set up just to mock me. It's not always nice about it either.

I love people ... no really! I just hate the way a lot of them behave.

Music.... I hear it constantly whether it's playing or not. My thoughts seem to take on rhythm and repetition in harmony with whatever song is playing in the back of my mind.. or maybe it's the other way around. It drives me, consoles me, mocks me , speaks to me, and for me. When I am upset , the first thing I do is seek new music, or the music playing in my mind. It always helps.

When I get upset I either don't talk at all, or I just spew out whatever I am thinking and feeling whether it makes any sense or not.

I chronically feel alone... but I seek solitude when I find myself in a crowd.

I need to feel important to the people who are important to me. ... unfortunately I hold double standards in regard to this subject. Some people have earned the right to ignore me for long periods of time... others have not.

I see the chaotic extremes people go to , and it scares the crap out of me. ... It scares me even more that many people don't know what I am talking about.

I love romance, and believe in true love. I've been told by many that it doesn't exist. ... I won't take that for an answer.

Seriously though... I'm not ready for love... unless it's ready for me.

Communication is important to me . I need companions I can talk to openly and honestly. people who are not afraid to hurt me or be hurt by me.

I don't like secrets. I rarely keep them... If I do , they usually belong to someone else. If you tell me something, I may tell someone else... not because I'm a gossip, but because I don't like secrets. So if you don't want me to share, let me know... If don't see the harm in it, I still might... If I do see the harm in it, and keeping it a secret won't cause any guilt to be placed on me, I will take it to my grave.

I hate violence, anger, jealousy, and apathy. Those things have no place in my world or my mind. If any of those things do enter my mind, I feel violated. And those things have all but destroyed my world.

My mind is a mess. As a general rule I contradict myself. I honestly believe everything I say, and I am well aware that I don't always make sense.

I say "I think" and "I feel" a lot ...because I rarely KNOW anything for certain.

I separate my sentences with dots... to illustrate a long pause... because my thoughts are broken like that. :)

I am not oblivious. If someone is twisting the truth, or taking advantage of me in any way , I will eventually figure it out.

If there is anything else anyone wants to know, please ask me. Like I said, I'm pretty open, and I like to talk to new people. I have already met quite a few really cool people here. I would like to meet more.


My Interests

I'd like to meet:

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People who care to see both sides.   People who care in general.     people who respond to more than visual stimulus.    people who have been there, and refuse to let anyone else go without warning.    people who know when they have received warning.   people who refuse to compromise who they are to join the "winning team".   people who value love more than power.   people who know the power of love.   people who understand metaphor.   people who want to live.   people who want to know me 

My Blog

Deleted blogs and other updates

I deleted a few of my blogs over the last few days, because..well ... the last one was just a rant, and after thinking about it, I realized that everything I was ranting about was really petty and I n...
Posted by on Tue, 08 Sep 2009 18:25:00 GMT

HI! My name is muffins ...

Ok ... so people have been asking me what's up with my new nick name. I swear people are so one track minded! It has nothing to do with my boobs. LOL!OK...  So Abby and I were having this discussion a...
Posted by on Mon, 03 Aug 2009 23:18:00 GMT

Words. (Enjoy the silence)

I've had this song running through my head. This particular song has been a favorite of mine since I was 17. There's just something about it that is mesmerizing to me. When I first got married, my ex ...
Posted by on Tue, 21 Jul 2009 01:03:00 GMT

Clarification

I just wanted to clarify something for anyone who has been following me. I may have been making it seem like I am totally" O.K. " now, and have everything under control. That couldn't be farther from ...
Posted by on Sun, 19 Jul 2009 01:33:00 GMT

How do I explain it?

It's summer, and I've been out doing stuff with Abby lately. I haven't added much to my site ... but I did add a relaxation techniques page if anyone is interested. I was informed by Abby yesterday th...
Posted by on Fri, 10 Jul 2009 14:31:00 GMT

Prayers needed please

I finally found out what happened to Sean. He is alive. He had a low blood sugar that caused him to go into a coma, he aspirated vomit into his lungs.  His electrolytes were out because of  severe aci...
Posted by on Sun, 05 Jul 2009 21:47:00 GMT

hakuna mattata

So yesterday I took the day off,and Abby and I hopped the bus to Vancouver. We had a really fun day. The trip down there was really long, and for the first time in years I experience car sickness from...
Posted by on Fri, 26 Jun 2009 09:54:00 GMT

I want to share this blog with anyone who feels they may need it.

http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog... This is a blog about deliverance from evil. I'm not trying to be cold or noninclusive here, but it is for those who have chosen to be christian. I...
Posted by on Mon, 15 Jun 2009 02:26:00 GMT

surfacing cognitions... get up off the floor!

Thank God I've been focusing on cognitive thinking for my website lately. I was morbidly depressed this morning, and at around 2:00 I found myself laying down like a lump feeling sorry for myself. I i...
Posted by on Fri, 12 Jun 2009 15:54:00 GMT

The battle and the door

I haven't blogged in awhile. Sarah needs to vent. This is going to be a long one! I've been focusing on getting the kinks out of my website, and have been suffering a bit of writer's block ...wi...
Posted by on Fri, 05 Jun 2009 17:18:00 GMT