Seems every woman on this site is on a quest to find the ever elusive honest man who is upfront and not afraid of commitment. From what I have seen and learned, I think that perhaps a few of the ladies may want to look inside themselves for the honesty. When mg srcyou can hold yourself up to the level you want a man to be, then perhaps you may get somewhere. There is no magic here. You can't get your credit card out and select your knight in shining armor with a 30 day money back return policy. Men are human just like you. There are probably more real guys on this site than you can imagine but just like in the real world will most likely NOT get a chance with you because they are not that cute guy you pictured in your head or have six pack abs.
What I have learned most it that nice guys finish last....it's sad but true. Woman will continue to pick the same asshole men that they alway seem to end up with....they will exchange numerous e-mails and just as many telephone calls...they will meet and she will sleep with him by the third date and then they will dump her and she will get frustrated and blame the man on why he never called again. Then these same women will find the "nice" men on these sites...looking for pity on how men have treated them so badly but will NEVER date these so called "nice" men. It's a never ending vicious cycle.
LIFE is not a romance novel. If you are divorced or separated because he fooled around on you...then OK you had a reason. But if the worst he ever did was work too much to pay the bills but forgot your anniversary or wasn't romantic enough and you got bored. If you got tired of struggling to make ends meet because he was layed off and you couldn't see the value in the struggle, a sense of accomplishment for having survived the struggle, then you dont deserve a good man. So before you e-mail that hot looking guy with 412,523 hot "chick" friends, do you really want to be his next victim?
So if you are someone who is smart, passionate, kind and sexy. If you are someone who knows how to be a friend. Someone who I can have a REAL conversation with. Anything further than just dropping by to say Hi. Then feel free to contact me and you may be surprised at what truth you might actually get from me.