kokie

"After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul. You learn that kisses aren't contracts and that presents aren't promises. You learn that loving doesn't mean learning and company doesn't always mean security. You learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much of it. After a while you learn to build your dreams on today because tomorrow is too uncertain for dreams and futures have a way of falling down in mid flight. You learn to accept your defeats with your head held high and with the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child. After a while you learn to plant your own garden and decorate your own soul rather than waiting for someone to bring you flowers. And you learn that you really are strong, that you really do have self worth, and you CAN endure, and you learn and learn--with every goodbye, you learn." .. and despite all that im just one happy person living life to the fullest =) feel free to add me up and lets keep it rolling take cares!