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Que pasa si mañana nunca llega, nunca llegare a concerte,
Que pasa si mañana no te puedo abrazar,
¿Qué pasa si mañana nunca podra verte y mirar a su bella sonrisa,
Que pasa si yo nunca gano su amor,
Y que pasa si yo nunca oigo sus palabras...
Entonces no sería nada sin ti y sin tu amor
¿Qué pasa si...

Gracias por visitar mi sitio de Myspace. Mi nombre es Thomas Edward Aubrey, o Tomas Edwardo Aubrey en Español, y en este sitio le contare mas sobre mi gustos/disgustos, mi vida personal, y mi vida professional. Sin embargo, aunque estudie Español en la universidad, mi gramática en Español no es perfecto así que algunas cosas solamente les contare en Ingles – si no entienden algo que e escrito escríbeme y haré el esfuerzo de traducir lo en Español. Aun les invito que me escriben en Español para practicar mi Español - o aniñadme a tus contactos de mensajero: [email protected]
Antes de comenzar en Ingles, les cuento un poco de mi. Soy de Tucson Arizona, Estados Unidos. Aunque viví unos anos en Anaheim California, ahora vivo en Phoenix Arizona. En cuanto a mi personalidad, me considero irremediablemente romántico, atrevido, "easy going", a la ves son buen sentido de humor, divertido, inteligente, optimista, saliente (aunque, en un primer momento, puedo ser tímida en todo el sexo opuesto), y aveces un loco. Pero, también tengo un lado profesional de mí.
Sobre mi profesión, trabajo como psicoterapista atendiendo familias, niños, parejas, y personas que sufran de enfermedades mentales graves. Aunque tengo títulos en contabilidad y computación, tengo mi bacheado en Psicología y mi maestría en Terapia de Familia, Matrimonio, y Niños. Actualmente, estoy estudiando para mi doctorado en psicología clínica. Al mismo tiempo, encuentro el tiempo para lograr otros sueños.
Por otro lado, me gusta la creación de páginas del Red. Por ejemplo, tengo un negocio de salud y bienestar, que me permite expresar mi creatividad en el Red, ademas a expresar mi deseo de ayudar a otros a vivir una vida más sana. No obstante, también tengo aspiraciones fuera del entorno profesional.

Algunos de mis sueños son para explorar las 7 maravillas del mundo. Otro deseo es llevar solamente una mochila y viajar todo el mundo, tal vez navegar los siete mares - si no me enfermo del mar, hahahaha. En última instancia, sería bueno encontrar a esa persona especial para disfrutar de estos momentos y con otros.
Okay, a hora si continuare en Ingles - comenzare con un poema.

What if, tomorrow I never get to know you,
What if, tomorrow I never am able to embrace you,
What if, tomorrow I never get to see you and look at your wonderful face,
What if, I never gain your love,
What if, I never hear your words...
Then I would be nothing without you and without your love
What if...

If you are on my webpage, I have taken the time to invite you or we know each other. Ether way, thanks for visiting my Myspace webpage. Anyway, if you don't know, my name is Thomas and throughout my Myspace profile a disclosure of my personal lifestyle and values can be found – with the hopes of establishing a bridge (rapport) that can overcome the breach (e.g., distance, not know me, and mistrust, lost contact with me, etc.). You will also read a lot of my personal poetry and/or some of my favorite poems and sayings
For starters, I grew up in Tucson, Arizona. Although I spent a few years living in Anaheim California, I now live in Phoenix Arizona. The bad part is I can't take the heat - and I crave natures green.
As for my personality, I consider myself hopelessly romantic, daring, easy going, goofy, funny, intelligent, optimistic, outgoing (although, at first, I can be shy around the opposite sex), silly, wild and crazy. But, I also have a professional side of me.
Although, I have completed a few degrees in various professional fields (e.g., receiving my degrees in account and computer networking), I ultimately found my niche while returning back to school and receiving a degree in psychology. At the present time, as a grad-student, I am in my final year in a Masters in Family, Marriage, and Child Therapy. I hope to someday work private practice as a marriage and family therapist (LMFT) and continue my schooling, in clinical psychology (Ph.D.), to eventually fulfill the requirements for licensure as a psychologist.
Currently, I am working in the field with families, couples, and the SMI (Severely mentally ill) population. Although my work is fulfilling, at times it is emotional exhausting. Nonetheless, I am able to find time to accomplish other goals.
On the other hand, I enjoy creating web-pages... I have an online health & wellness business, which has allows me to express my web-creativity and my desire to help others live a healthier life. Nonetheless, I also have aspirations outside of the professional setting.
Some of my dreams are to explore the 7 wonders of the world. Backpack around the globe; maybe sail the seven seas – if I don’t get sea-sick. Ultimately, it would be nice to find that special person to enjoy these and other moments with.
If You Don’t Like My Myspace, Go Elsewhere!
Peace!

My Interests

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¿Qué furioso fuego
se inundan el alma?
¿Qué rico deseo
abren sus puertas?
¿Qué dulce seducción
se encuentra antes que yo. . .? ..
,br>Por supuesto que tengo una novia ... Lo unico es no lo conosco todavia, pues no se deja encontrar, : ( hahahaha .. ..

What raging fire
shall flood the soul?
What rich desire
unlocks its door?
What sweet seduction
lies before me. . .?Of Course I have a Girlfriend!... I just Haven't Found Her Yet :(


Mi corazón ha sido romper uno-a-muchas veces. No obstante, ha sido capaz de enmendar y crecer. Además mi experiencia dolorosa me han permitido crecer como persona, y espero que esto me permitirá dar más de mí mismo en una futura relación.

My heart has been shatter one-to-many times. Nonetheless, it has been able to mend and grow. Furthermore, my painful and joyful experiences have allowed me to grow as a person, and hopefully this will allow me to give more of myself in a future relationship.

Now, Will You Make It As Part of My Future?

En primer lugar, estoy en Myspace para hacer nuevos amigos. No obstante, creo sinceramente que la amistad y la comunicación es la base de cualquier tipo de relación, la amistad puede ser una poderosa puerta de entrada a algo más allá de nosotros mismos.
Claro, espero construir una gran amistad con alguien especial, ya que sólo mediante el desarrollo de Estorge (el amor de un amigo) puede Eros (el amor romántico) y Ágape (el amor altruista ~ sobre la base de principios) formar. Sin embargo, esto no quiere decir que una relación platónica no es especial, esa relación puede ser tan especial, a veces incluso más especial, a continuación, de la mencionada [Eros] tipo de relación (Proverbios 18:24; 17:17).

Primarily, I am on Myspace to make new friends. Nonetheless, since I truly believe friendship and communication is the foundation of any type of relationship; friendship can be a powerful gateway to something more beyond ourselves.

Eventually, I hope to build a strong friendship with someone special, since only through the development of Estorge (love of a friend) can Eros (romantic love) and then Agape (altruistic love ~ based on principles) form. However, this is not to say that a platonic relationship is not special, such a relationship can be as special, at times even more special, then the aforementioned [Eros] type of relationship (Proverbs 18:24; 17:17).

"La vida sin un amigo es la muerte sin un testigo." (Proverbio español) .."Life without a friend is death without a witness."(Spanish Proverb)


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Algunas de las cualidades que aprecio y busco en otra persona son la compasión, la fidelidad, el perdón/miscericordia, la amistad, honestidad, humildad, humor, inteligencia, bondad, moderación, paciencia, autocontrol, y la tolerancia.

Sin embargo, esto no quiere decir que alguien tiene que poseer todas las cualidades mencionadas, pero creo que es importante que tengamos una pasión para nosotros y mejor esforzarse continuamente para cultivar estas y otras cualidades en nuestras vidas, y mejorarnos en nuestra personalidad, que nos ayuda a ser más simpático / deseable y humana.

Además, estos aspectos o características de nuestra personalidad pueden ser factores predictivos de una feliz y fructífera amistad, la relación amorosa, e incluso el matrimonio.

Some of the qualities that I cherish and look for in another person are compassion, faithfulness, forgiveness, friendliness, honestly, humility, humor, intelligence, kindness, moderation, patience, self-control, and tolerance.

However, this is not to say that someone must possess all the aforesaid qualities, but I think it is important that we have a passion to better ourselves and continually strive to cultivate these and other qualities in our lives, and engrain them in our personality; which helps us become more likeable/desirable and humane.

Furthermore, these characteristic aspects of our personality may be predictive factors of a happy and successful friendship, romantic relationship, and even marriage.

"Place me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal upon your arm; because love is as strong as death is..."(Song of Solomon 8:6)



MOST IMPORTANT WORDS TO SAY TO A WOMEN:

THE SIX most important words: YOU WERE RIGHT I WAS WRONG.

THE FIVE most important words: YOU DID A GREAT JOB.

THE FOUR most important words: WHAT IS YOUR OPINION?

THE THREE most important words: I LOVE YOU.

THE TWO most important words: THANK YOU.

THE ONE least important word: I

Mmm, and women say guys are are self-centered and self-righteous, sound like the other way around ~
Ups, YOU WERE RIGHT I WAS WRONG, LOL

“If we take a person as he [she] is, he [she] will be less then he [she] can be. But if we expect more and view a person as he [she] should be, we help him [her] achieve his [her] full potential. We help him [her] become the full self of what he [she] is capable.” Johann Goethe (German Writer)


Favorite Quotes


"Don't Fall In Love With Someone You Can Live With, Fall In Love With Someone You Can't Live Without..."

"Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind." (William Shakespeare's in a Midsummer Night's Dream)

"There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness" (Friedrich Nietzsche)

"I think therefore I am" - Rene Descartes - Is this Cartesian dualist? No, in my opinion, this means that out of consciousness we are created - "nerve cells create thoughts, this may be true, but it is just as true to say that thinking creates nerve cells" (Chapora, 1989, p. 26-27)

"For the righteous one may fall even seven times, and he will certainly get up, but the wicked one will be made to stumble by calamity"
--Proverbs 24:16--

"When one attains the release called the Beautiful, at such a time he knows in truth what Beauty is" (Gautama...)



The distance between us, although, torments my soul (my life sustaining substance), builds anticipation and profound fondness in my heart. I can only "show a waiting attitude." - Lamentations 3:21 – For “love is long-suffering and kind… it bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things" – 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7

In the end, “I always thank my God when I make mention of you in my prayers” – Philemon 4

"Love Starts With A Smile... Grows With a Kiss... And Ends With Tears"

"It is one thing to show a man he is in error, and another to put him in possession of the truth" - John Locke

"Happy is he who has overcome his ego...who has attained peace...who has found the truth" - Gautama -

>I Wish I had Saved All The Tears I Cried For You, So I Can Drown You In Them
"Beauty in things exists in the mind which contemplates them" David Hume....

My Blog

WIFE VS. HUSBAND

A couple drove down a country road for several miles, not saying a word.  An earlier discussion had led to an argument and neither of them wanted to concede their position.  As they passed a...
Posted by on Sat, 03 May 2008 18:29:00 GMT

WHO DOES WHAT

A man and his wife were having an argument about who should brew the coffee each morning.  The wife said, "You should do it, because you get up first, and then we don't have to wait as long to ge...
Posted by on Sat, 03 May 2008 18:27:00 GMT

CREATION

A man said t o his wife one day, "I don't know how you can be so stupid and so beautiful all at the same time.       " The wife responded, "Allow me to explain.  God made me beaut...
Posted by on Sat, 03 May 2008 18:26:00 GMT

W O R D S

A husband read an article to his wife about how many words women use a day...30,000 to a man's 15,000. The wife replied, "The reason has to be because we have to repeat everything to men... ..   ...
Posted by on Sat, 03 May 2008 18:24:00 GMT

WOMENS REVENGE

"Cash, check or charge?" I asked, after folding items the woman wished to purchase.  As she fumbled for her wallet I noticed a remote control for a television set in her purse. "So, do you always...
Posted by on Sat, 03 May 2008 18:22:00 GMT

The Silent Treatment

  A man and his wife were having some problems at home and were giving each other the silent treatment. Suddenly, the man realized that the next day, he would need his wife to wake him at ..: ..:...
Posted by on Sat, 03 May 2008 18:21:00 GMT

Sometimes We Jump To Conclusions

A woman was waiting at an airport one night,..: With several long hours before her flight. She hunted for a book in the airport shops. Bought a bag of cookies and found a place to drop She was engross...
Posted by on Sat, 03 May 2008 18:19:00 GMT

Abnormal Behavior, Mental Disorder or Just Diversity and Free Will?

Many of you may know that I am doing a grad-major in clinical psychology and also working in the mental health field. Some of my friends also know my feelings about over-prescribed medication and the ...
Posted by on Sat, 03 May 2008 18:17:00 GMT

What Men Can Do to Have a Better Intimate Relationship with a Woman

1) Provide more facial expression and more nonverbal feedback, such as smiling and head nodding.   2) Use more eye contact.     3) Talk less about themselves, interrupt less, and be...
Posted by on Sat, 03 May 2008 18:15:00 GMT

What Women Can Do to Have a Better Intimate Relationship with a Man

1) Don't expect a man to be a mind reader. Tell him what you want in a loving, yet direct, manner.     2) Don't bring up things from the past. This is confusing to men who prefer to keep t...
Posted by on Sat, 03 May 2008 18:13:00 GMT