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~better lives for children~

About Me


Disclaimer: This site supports all those parents out there who do not have custody of their children and make a valid effort to do the right thing by supporting their children financially, emotionally and physically to the best of their ability. Thank you for being there for your kids!
We all have something in common. We are frustrated with the system and it's ineffective, outdated enforcement efforts. We fall through the cracks. And on the other hand, there are fathers who try their hardest to give their children a better tomorrow only to have the system fail them. We feel hopeless, like we can't be heard. By networking together, we show unity. There is strength in numbers. Let's stand together and show that we are all invested in the best interest of America's next generation.
**i will be posting bios of different absent parents in my blog. just send me a message with the bio and i will copy and paste it into my blog. let's be proactive, network, and share our story with others!

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Millions of children have an absent parent, and as a result face serious problems which affect our American society. A majority of single parents who do not receive child support live below or near the poverty line and rely on government assistance to supplement their income, demonstrating a positive correlation between absent parent families and welfare; the government must become proactive to reduce these numbers and lessent the burden on taxpayers by reforming the means of enforcing child support payments.

*According to the US Census Bureau, there were over 13.5 million non widowed single parents.

*These single parents raise 23 million children.

*Both men and women are guilty of abandoning their children.

*Only 57.3% of single parents have an official court regulated child support order.

*Over 16% of single parents do not seek child support orders because they do not want contact with the absent parent.

*Children who have a natural parent living elsewhere are three times more likely to be poor.

*About 53% of single parents lived below the poverty level in 2005. And about 25% of single parents are classified as low income.

*American children are owed over $92 billion...That's the gross national product of Egypt!!

*Among families that receive child support, the income from child support averages between 13% - 28% of their income.

*Less than 52% of child support owed was payed to single parent families living in poverty in 2005. Only 39% of the poor families which received child support were payed the full amount. Sadly, 27% of these single parent families living in poverty received no payments at all.

*Children with an absent parent are four times more likely to receive public assistance...over 53% of single parents owed child support receive some sort of public assistance. This is over 10 MILLION children!

*The DHHS budgets over $4 billion to enforce child support annually. How effective are they? These enforcement policies need to be reformed!

If you have any questions about my information, I will be happy to share my sources with you, as they are scholarly and reliable sources.

My Blog

the ball was dropped

  There was a court date for contempt a few weeks ago.  This is because of course, no payments have been made.  An employer was found, and when the order for wage garnishment was ordere...
Posted by on Wed, 22 Oct 2008 04:04:00 GMT

i reported him to the irs!

oh yeah i did.  i filled out the form i mentioned in my other blog and sent it into the irs.  i reported my "deadbeat" for  failure to file taxes and unreported income!  (thank goo...
Posted by on Tue, 29 Apr 2008 16:20:00 GMT

my research paper - finally

it's really long, but here it is...        Families with an absent parent are ubiquitous.  They live in every state, city and town.  You may not think that they are very ...
Posted by on Mon, 28 Apr 2008 11:49:00 GMT

absent parent doesn’t file taxes?!?

if you go to the irs website, there is a form (form 3939-A) you can print and fill out and mail back to them in order to report people that do not file their taxes!   here is the link http://www....
Posted by on Tue, 22 Apr 2008 21:45:00 GMT

in a nutshell

"Unforgiven" by Fefe DobsonDaddy daddyWhy you break your promises to meDaddy daddyDon't you know you hurt me constantlyAnd there's something I think you should knowI'm not the little girl you left wai...
Posted by on Mon, 21 Apr 2008 20:08:00 GMT

absent grandparent?

The parents of my children's fathers aren't really grandparents.  They've never shown an interest in their own grandchildren.  A few years ago I contacted my son's grandmother to try to buil...
Posted by on Sun, 13 Apr 2008 06:43:00 GMT

bio of an absent dad: as told by tired of deadbeats

I was with my son's "father", we lived together and were engaged. I ended up pregnant a bit quicker than we had planned, but we were ok with it, or so I thought. He started to change alot, he was not ...
Posted by on Sat, 12 Apr 2008 07:56:00 GMT

bio of an absent dad: my story

I am the proud mom of two beautiful children.  They each have their own deadbeat dad. My six year old girl has not seen her father since she was six months old when he left me for another person....
Posted by on Wed, 09 Apr 2008 17:31:00 GMT

bio of an absent dad: as told by fight4childsupport

   I am a mom who is tired of being screwed over by the child support and court system. My exhusband was ordered to pay $600/mo and carry health insurance for our two kids. He paid for about...
Posted by on Wed, 09 Apr 2008 16:53:00 GMT

i contacted the news!

     So I’ve been very frustrated lately with the lack of effort put forth by the child support agency.  Dealing with an interstate case is extremely frustrating because...
Posted by on Tue, 08 Apr 2008 14:20:00 GMT