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vida

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About Me

I am 37 years old and have 3 sons. I love to dance, swim and I love the ocean. One day I will live near it. It is the only place that brings me peace. I have a degree in early childhood . My sons are 12, 18 and one that is 20. I love to laugh and those who can make me laugh are the ones I chat with. I am working again with infants wchich I really enjoy. I am staying very busy and having a lot of fun doing it.I also have fibromyalgia for those who knows what it is. I have had it for 11 years. I deal with it from day to day. Anyone who has it and would like to ask any questions please do so.......

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This is for all of us who have it or are caring for someone with it.LIVING WITH FMS, HMS & CFSI’m not normal, I’d think in my head, I used to think; I’d be better off dead. My life has been taken, away from me, It’s so unfair, No reason that I can see. I’ve been a good person, all of my life, I feel I’ve been stabbed, With a sharp knife. I’d shout and scream, then cry some more, Hands over face, in a ball on the floor.All of this aching, All of these harsh pains, Pulled muscles, lots Of strains and sprains. My joints are stiff, And unbearable to use, Someone touches me, I go blotchy and bruise. My shoulders hurt, can’t raise them in the air, There so sensitive, someone’s touch I can’t bear. I struggle to walk, As my legs are giving way, Tingling and burning, shooting pains when I lay.Swollen hands and fingers, Cramp and they lock, The constant sharp pain, I always try to block. Tired and worn out, My feet sink in the ground, My body’s a struggle, for me to drag around. Headaches and Migraines, are not of a few, Poor concentration, and a bad memory too. People haven’t heard, of what I have got,Vacant expressions, they’re like ER… What? This is what I hate, when I have to explain, ..Cos I get so upset, When I talk of the pain. No idea they have, Because I look so well, What my life is like, it can be a living hell.Thing after thing, I am not able to do, Working and driving, are just of a few. Learning to accept, To cope and to face, My life as it is now, at it’s own slow pace By Dayna. © Thunder & Dust Created 19 Nov 2005 Font is RowdyHeavy

My Blog

Becoming a Grandmother

I found out last week I was going to be a Grandmother. I am so very excited.  Its scary but I am looking forward to it. I will be a grandmother at 38. LOL
Posted by on Wed, 25 Nov 2009 23:51:00 GMT

Things change

So far this year it has been interesting. I met a wonderful man moved in with him but had to move back out because the judge wouldn't allow John to keep custody of his kids if we aren't married.  So a...
Posted by on Thu, 24 Sep 2009 10:38:00 GMT

He told me NOT to But you know me I did it anyway

  Everyone who knows me knows I was robbed a year ago. I have settled and trying to start my life over again. Well my lawyer gave me all my records and the tape from the robbery that was messed w...
Posted by on Mon, 14 Jul 2008 10:49:00 GMT

what to do next

I have been trying to figure out what to ddo next.  I am suppose to go get a car Wed. and I am hoping being able to go somewhere when I want will help. I know breaking up with Rob was the right t...
Posted by on Mon, 09 Jun 2008 18:59:00 GMT

confused

Rob is not wanting to let me go . I try and explain I am not happy. As a friend I like doing stuff with him.  I understand he loves me and he has been there for me everyday I have needed him but ...
Posted by on Wed, 04 Jun 2008 04:08:00 GMT

HURT

I am single again. I hurt Rob and I truly didnt want to .. I love him I am just not happy I lost myself about a year ago and I have to find me again. I am praying Rob will forgive me and be able ...
Posted by on Tue, 20 May 2008 20:12:00 GMT

feeling blue

Hope everyone is doing well I seem to be falling apart and don't even understand why. But thats life right?                 &n...
Posted by on Sat, 03 May 2008 15:56:00 GMT

Poetry

I wrote this a couple years ago. I love poetry.....     You hold me close to your heart like that is where I belong, where I have always belonged. You hold me tightly as if you need me as m...
Posted by on Mon, 07 Apr 2008 02:32:00 GMT

A little story

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would ...
Posted by on Mon, 07 Apr 2008 02:25:00 GMT

Fibromyalgia

First blog on myspace. I have had fibromyalgia for 11 very long years. It has been very hard at times. At the moment I can’t get out of the pain flare I am in.  Anyone who doesn’t kno...
Posted by on Mon, 07 Apr 2008 01:55:00 GMT