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Feisty_Femita

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About Me

Watch your Thoughts, they become Words.
Watch your Words, they become Actions.
Watch your Actions, they become Habits.
Watch your Habits, they become Character.

"THE KEY TO CHANGE IS TO LET GO OF FEAR."

Im a very straight up person. Nothing but the raw truth to offer. No, I do not sugar coat a thing. Ver sarcastic and hella silly. One thing I cant stand: IGNORANCE and people wit sticks in their asses. Think about it.
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Keep this philosophy in mind the next time you hear, or are about to repeat, a rumor. In ancient Greece (469 - 399 BC), Socrates was widely lauded for his wisdom. One day the great philosopher came upon an acquaintance that ran up to him excitedly and said, 'Socrates, do you know what I just heard about one of your students?' 'Wait a moment,' Socrates replied. 'Before you tell me, I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the Test of Three.' 'Test of Three?' 'That's correct,' Socrates continued. 'Before you talk to me about my student, let's take a moment to test what you're going to say. The first test is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?' 'No,' the man replied, 'actually I just heard about it.' 'All right,' said Socrates. 'So you don't really know if it's true or not. Now let's try the second test, the test of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my student something good?' 'No, to the contrary...' 'So,' Socrates continued, 'you want to tell me something bad about him even though you're not certain it's true?' The man shrugged, a little embarrassed. Socrates continued, 'You may still pass though because there is a third test, the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my student going to be useful to me?' 'No, not really.' 'Well,' concluded Socrates, 'if what you want to tell me is neither True nor Good nor even Useful, why tell it to me at all?' The man was defeated and ashamed, and said no more. This is the reason Socrates was a great philosopher and held in such high esteem.

My Blog

A Talk to Teachers

A Talk to TeachersBy James Baldwin (Delivered October 16, 1963, as The Negro Child  His Self-Image; originally published in The Saturday Review, December 21, 1963, reprinted in The Price of the T...
Posted by on Fri, 28 Aug 2009 08:06:00 GMT

what race really means

race: a recent idea created by western Europeans following exploration across the world to account for differences among people and justify colonization, conquest, enslavement, and social hierarchy am...
Posted by on Sun, 23 Sep 2007 11:50:00 GMT

The Colour Complex

I've always been aware of the South Asian fetish for fair skin, growing up watching Fair & Lovely ads, but today it really hit me. While browsing through a random cricket forum, someone linked an ...
Posted by on Tue, 11 Sep 2007 12:21:00 GMT

Beyond the pale

As a couple is fined for selling dangerous skin-bleaching products, the real question is, why do black and Asian women want to whiten up in the first place? Yinka and Michael Oluyemi are believed to ...
Posted by on Tue, 11 Sep 2007 12:19:00 GMT

Skin bleaching vs tans

While so many white western women are desperate for that St Tropez tan, black and Asian women often aspire to be lighter skinned.Black americas who are from america and raised with in america have re...
Posted by on Tue, 11 Sep 2007 12:16:00 GMT

Racism: Beyond blacks and wannbe whites

By Michelle StruckeThe young man stood, his face staring calmly at Dr. Fateh Azzam, director of the Forced Migration and Refugee Studies Department at the American University in Cairo. "What are they...
Posted by on Tue, 11 Sep 2007 12:15:00 GMT

Whitening skin can be deadly

By Dr. S. Allen Counter, Globe Correspondent, 12/16/2003Earlier this year, I was asked by the editor of an international biomedical journal to write a review article on the effects of mercury exposure...
Posted by on Tue, 11 Sep 2007 12:13:00 GMT

Colonial Mentality

Colonial mentality refers to institutionalised or systemic feelings of inferiority within some societies or peoples who have been subjected to colonialism, relative to the mores or values of the fore...
Posted by on Mon, 10 Sep 2007 16:37:00 GMT

Great Importance of Masterminding

Great Importance of MastermindingTop 10 Benefits of MastermindMasterminding occurs when two or more individuals get together in the spirit of cooperative harmony to accomplish some goal, activity or r...
Posted by on Fri, 17 Aug 2007 00:02:00 GMT

sex does not = relationship

(I didnt write this...but i agree with it 100%)Bottom line is if I sleep with a woman I don't know or care about SEX is NOT going to make me care. (I stopped doing that years ago) That kind of sex is...
Posted by on Sun, 22 Jul 2007 17:54:00 GMT