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Melinda Julia

Going to church doesn't make you a Christian anymore than standing in a garage makes you a car

About Me


I've been married to the love of my life,Robert for 10 years. This past annivesary we renewed our vows in Vegas and I can honestly say I love him more everyday.I have been truley blessed with a wonderful family. We have a beautiful daughter named Taylor she's 8 years old, and in the 4th grade.We also have two spoiled dogs.Princess(4) and Odie(1)Robert is active duty Coast Guard and has been for the past 10 years,which has made home wherever the Coast Guard sends us. We've been up in Nothern CA the past 4 years and we really like it here out of all the places we've lived.Were orginally from Southern California.My GIANT family is still down there so were down kinda often for holidays.I love the holidays especially halloween and Christmas..I love to go all out!!My priorities are family 1st before work and before friends but if your a true friend to me I will treat you like family.I think true friends are hard to find.I think there are alot of shady people in the world but I try not to concern myself with the likes of such people.As the saying goes don't judge a book by its cover the same goes for me...I may seem shy but if I open up to you..I'm one hell of a talker and I surely will make you laugh!I am pretty girly as far as hating sports and always wearing heels and makeup goes but the being into .jewelry and designer clothes and bags..If your not super rich like Paris Hilton..what a waste!!I am practical and down to earth. I am a house cleaning,weed pulling,bargain shopper,hands on mom and I manage to hold down a job and still keep my house spotless AND drag my ass to the gym..well on my good days LOL!For 31 I feel pretty young but my head is in the right place!I'm not caught up in a scene and I don't worry if I'm cool like some highschool kid.I try to be optimistic and never focus on the things I don't have but rather the things I do have.

My Interests



MY INTERESTS ARE.......... DECORATING,HAIR I am a licensed cosmetologist even though I don't work as one as at the time(it all still interests me and I do family and friends hair sometimes)Whatever aids in fighting the battle of the buldge!CYCLE CLASSES and BODY SCULPT.SINGING..in the shower or sometimes a karaoke bar.DANCING.. in my room or at a club..I'M AI.IGHT for a white girl LOL! Watching lots of movies snuggled up on my couch,going out to dinner,cooking is fun when I have the time,taking trips and spending quality and quantity time with my family!!

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I'd like to meet:

1.I DON'T WANT GUYS LOOKING TO FLIRT OR HOOK UP.2.I DON'T WANT PEOPLE WITH 1000-5000 FRIENDS WHO ADD EVERYONE AND NEVER TALK TO YOU! 3. I DON'T WANT TOTAL PERVERTS WITH ALL NAKED PICS ON YOUR PAGE.I do want to keep in touch with my family and friends who are far and with the ones from way back in the day! I also enjoy meeting people that have things in common with me and are generally just good people!I hope that if you give me a friend request you will email me first and introduce yourself or I may assume your number 2!!!

Music:



DEPECHE MODE,THE CURE,ERASURE,MADONNA,BLONDIE,BERLIN,PAT BENITAR,NEW ORDER,PET SHOP BOYS,DURAN DURAN,BILLY IDOL,DAVID BOWIE,THE SMITHS,NIN,RAMONES..ALL THE NEW WAVE 80's AND OLD HEAVY METAL FROM MOTLEY CRUE TO BON JOVI,PRINCE TO MICHAEL JACKSON,LOVE SONGS FROM ELTON JOHN TO CELINE DION,COUNTRY,GOTHIC,DISCO,ALTENATIVE( not fond of grundge or rap)PRETTY MUCH WITH MUSIC,YOU NAME IT,I KNOW IT!!Check out my brother Jay's band called Darvoset!

Movies:



JUST LIKE I KNOW MUSIC,I KNOW MOVIES!! I'M A MOVIE FREAK..I LOVE THEM..HORROR,ROMANCE,COMEDIES..GOTTA LOVE BLOCKBUSTER TOTAL ACCESS!...ALSO I HAVE GOT INTO A FEW MOVIE PREMIER'S AND AFTER PARTIES TO STALK THE MOVIE STARS hehe!ME AND SOME CELEBRITIES! ANYTHING WITH HIM OR HERSOME OF MY ALL TIME FAVORITE MOVIES!

Television:

Most of my Favs are no longer on! CSI,24,x-files,any makeover show on people or homes.

Books:



wow look what reading junk has done for my IQ!!! I love magazines like US,People and yes even full of crap ones!The best are MAGAZINES WITH PICS LIKE THESE.. HA!

Heroes:

My Husband,THE US TROOPS,Truimph the insult dog for being able to burn most anyone!

My Blog

Check out this video: singing some Celine

This is from Tommy T's Karaoke on my 31st b-day.For those of you who missed out on all my Celine Dion Glory LOL....well I always sound like Sh#T on my little camera video clips(if you've ever recorded...
Posted by Melinda Julia on Tue, 26 Jun 2007 06:10:00 PST

Check out this video: Karaoke

I don't know why this is so dark on here! When you watch it on my camera its not! You can see it but oh well at least I have a camera with sound now.So before you couldn't hear now you can't see LOL!....
Posted by Melinda Julia on Sun, 25 Feb 2007 05:36:00 PST

My 80's halloween costumes LOL

This is supposed to be red riding hood..A ragdollIn this one I'm the green bride thats right green bride LOL!Wearing my grandma's wig and shoes..what you jealous I look so good!!??In this one I am min...
Posted by Melinda Julia on Wed, 25 Oct 2006 11:30:00 PST