Melinda Julia

I've been married to the love of my life,Robert for 10 years. This past annivesary we renewed our vows in Vegas and I can honestly say I love him more everyday.I have been truley blessed with a wonderful family. We have a beautiful daughter named Taylor she's 8 years old, and in the 4th grade.We also have two spoiled dogs.Princess(4) and Odie(1)Robert is active duty Coast Guard and has been for the past 10 years,which has made home wherever the Coast Guard sends us. We've been up in Nothern CA the past 4 years and we really like it here out of all the places we've lived.Were orginally from Southern California.My GIANT family is still down there so were down kinda often for holidays.I love the holidays especially halloween and Christmas..I love to go all out!!My priorities are family 1st before work and before friends but if your a true friend to me I will treat you like family.I think true friends are hard to find.I think there are alot of shady people in the world but I try not to concern myself with the likes of such people.As the saying goes don't judge a book by its cover the same goes for me...I may seem shy but if I open up to you..I'm one hell of a talker and I surely will make you laugh!I am pretty girly as far as hating sports and always wearing heels and makeup goes but the being into .jewelry and designer clothes and bags..If your not super rich like Paris Hilton..what a waste!!I am practical and down to earth. I am a house cleaning,weed pulling,bargain shopper,hands on mom and I manage to hold down a job and still keep my house spotless AND drag my ass to the gym..well on my good days LOL!For 31 I feel pretty young but my head is in the right place!I'm not caught up in a scene and I don't worry if I'm cool like some highschool kid.I try to be optimistic and never focus on the things I don't have but rather the things I do have.