I would love to meet THE ONE !!! If that is you hmmmmm, holla at me and let's see what happens !! Now that I am ready to start dating and living again I hope that all of the jerks will stay on one side of the room while I run to the other . I have been there and done that and I don't have it in me to do it again . Yeah I am a big girl , but I try to look my best and have the best personality possible .I'm not looking for 'Shallow Hal' so if you are a jerk like that don't even bother , I was married to him for a long time and I have found I have zero tolerance for him and his kind . I just want a chance at happiness for once in my life and I hope to find it someday with someone who will show that he cares and we will be able to love and laugh freely .In the meantime , I always love meeting new people to be friends and laugh with . Life is too short to be miserable all of the time .