MyHotComments i am 19 years old. i have 3 brothers and 1 sister. nick: 21, jon: 18, ada: 16, and deven: 14. my parents have been divorced pretty much my whole life. i have never had a good relationship with my father and dont ever want to. my mother lives 6 hours away from me in tennessee. we have always had a pretty good relationship. its more of a friend relationship than mother and daughter but there are always times when we have to put the friendliness aside and be mother and daughter. i recently graduated from aurora high school. i have lived on my own ever since senior year and i love it!! i have always been mature for my age. i most certainly did not have the greatest life growing up but it has made me who i am today. i am very independent and it is really hard for me to ask people for help but i would rather do things my way any day. i speak my mind and dont care wat people think. why lie to make people feel better. even tho i can sometimes seem mean, i am a very caring, sensitive, person with a big personality and loves to be around others.