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{{Ms. Debbie Cake}}

"If I have to, I can do anything. I am strong, I am invincible, I am Woman.”

About Me

I am 23 and go by the name of Bianca, well thats my birth name, people call me B, BB, Nanca, Miss Nanca and other variations. I am a pretty level headed person, I am a STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN and learn from lives lessons, I don't want to put much on here, cause then you would have no reason to try and get to know me, hehe....

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

They take my kindness for weakness. They take my silence for speechless. They consider my uniqueness strange. They call my language slang. They see my confidence as conceit. They see my mistakes as defeat. They consider my success accidental. They minimize my intelligence to "potential". My questions mean "I’m unaware". My advancement is somehow unfair. Any praise is preferential treatment. To voice concern is discontentment. If I stand up for myself, I’m too defensive. If I don’t trust them, I’m too apprehensive. I’m defiant if I separate. I’m fake if I assimilate. Yet, constantly I am faced with work place hate. My character is constantly under attack. Pride for my race makes me, "TOO BLACK". Yet, I can only be me. And, who am I you might ask? I am that Strong Black Person... Who stands on the backs of my ancestor’s achievements, with an erect spine pointing to the stars with pride, dignity and respect which lets the work place in America know, that I not only possess the ability to play by the rules, but I can make them as well!

Music:

I like anything that has some rhythm, hehehe..I listen to r&b, pop, rap, hip hop, rock, country, anything basically. except hard core rap and heavy metal.

Movies:

my favorite movie of all time, NEVER BEEN KISSED, hehe.. and I love any movie about love, black love, and interracial love, is beautiful.

Television:

I love any of the dancing shows, and true life, baldwin hills, and hell date.

Books:

I love Jerome Dickey books and anything about cheating men beccause yes ladies they are out there. I love books that were made into movies, like cider house rules, the notebook, i just love reading books to better my umm... love life, hehehe.

Heroes:

God, my parents and my grandma Dixie, and my siblings.

My Blog

10/20/07.. 2007 GOODBYE!!

December 20, 2007&   Let's sum up the year "CRAZY!" I guess it is true what they say, who you ring in the New Year with is who you will spend the year with, and I rang it in with my family, the...
Posted by {{Ms. Debbie Cake}} on Thu, 20 Dec 2007 02:55:00 PST