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Tamara now aka Rhapsody

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About Me

Okay. Alright. I give. I've been fussed at for not writing about myself instead of putting all this neat little graphics in this section. So, here goes...
This is hard for me to write, because I don't see myself through the same eyes that everyone else does. One thing for sure is that I'm a outgoing, relatively laid back person. I laugh easy and I can be a bit of a clown, Robin Williams style. No wait, more like Billy Connolly. I'm pretty tolerant of a lot of things, my main feeling being that as long as you're happy, and not harming anyone in the process, it's fine. Not saying I'll like what you're doing, but as long as it's not shoved down my throat, what difference does it make??? It's not my path to follow. Believe me, I make my own...=)
Anyway, there are only two things that make the 'happy me' go away, so to speak. That's when someone messes with my friends and family, and to a lesser degree, messes with me, as in talking shit about me, betraying my trust or threatening me. Now, I'm a pretty trusting person, but once someone crosses that line, forget it, it's a done deal. But other than that, I really do enjoy life and try to live it as fully as I can.
One thing that throws most for a loop is the fact that I can hang with the guys, talk about cars, football and tell some pretty good off-color jokes (without blushing one bit, haha.) But, just the same, I can trade in the grease stained jeans for heels and be very much the lady. It all depends on the setting.
I can be rather out-spoken on certain subjects, but I would rather debate opposites and hear your side, rather than try to change your mind. I'll discuss just about any subject except religion and (most) politics, only because I feel that a) both are highly personal and b) even folks who have the same view on it will differ, with neither one in the wrong. Won't say that I don't state how I feel, but I really don't like to debate the rights and wrongs of those two. We each feel what we feel, and for a reason. Life would be pretty damn boring if we all felt the same way, on every subject.
Alright, it's time for me to rewrite this paragraph. This *was* about me, post-divorce, but that no longer applies. :) *Gushyness Warning!* I say it no longer applies because my life is no longer in a state of repair from a long term relationship ending. I had always thought that I had known love, felt love and loved before, but I reckon it is safe to say that this not-quite-old dog has learned a new lesson. To say that I am smitten is a vast understatement. To say that the man that has proved that great things happen to good people, crosses my mind hourly is another vast understatement. To say that a love can survive across many miles is an understatement as this one grows by the day, if not by the hour. To say that I love him for everything that he is, does not do the emotion I feel justice. To say that I have been blessed with a man that can love me for a lifetime, and I him, is beyond my mere words. To say that I grin as my heart races when I hear his voice, simply proves that I am the luckiest woman on this huge, lonely rock we call Earth. Heart of my heart, to say that you have my heart and shown me how wonderful life can be when you are truly loved, is the understatement of the century. From the deepest reaches of my soul, thank you for giving my the very best reason to smile, no matter what life throws at me. I only hope I can give you what you've given me.
Okay, I guess I've rattled enough cages and I'm sure some who read this may wonder where I lost my pretty lil white dinner jacket. You know the one, with all the shiny buckles on it...I'll update this again, once my mind settles.
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Another Turn Of The Seasons

For whatever the reason, every turn of the seasons makes me a bit introspective. For those of you not in the Great White North, winter is upon us. Over the last day and a half, we've gotten anywhere f...
Posted by on Mon, 13 Oct 2008 22:50:00 GMT

Odd thoughts

Maybe it's because my life is really going great right now, but some folks have kinda really puzzled me. Why do people want to be unhappy? I mean really, my life is far from perfect by most standards,...
Posted by on Sat, 11 Oct 2008 03:36:00 GMT

Surprises

Isn't it amazing the things that happen when you least expect it? The events of the last few weeks have just blindsided the hell out of me, in the best way possible. A chance crossing of paths, one th...
Posted by on Thu, 25 Sep 2008 23:04:00 GMT

~~~Repost~~~Heros...

We recently treated ourselves to the movie "The Guardian". It is a great movie and I highly recommend it to anyone. I won't go into details, I don't want to ruin it for anyone, but I would say it is a...
Posted by on Sun, 21 Sep 2008 22:06:00 GMT

~~~Repost~~~October 10,2006

OK folks, I know my last few posts have been a little...dark. Guess I was just in my "pissed at the world" mood. It could have been worse, though. I could have been in my "Unforgiven" mood( Black albu...
Posted by on Sun, 21 Sep 2008 22:04:00 GMT

~~~Repost~~~Ya thought ya smelled smoke, right? Yep, I’ve been thinking...

It's kind of strange some of the thoughts that hit me, whether they are sparked from what has been said to me or just simple moments of inspiration. That never matters to me, just that t...
Posted by on Sun, 21 Sep 2008 21:52:00 GMT

~~~repost~~~Redneck Gals Like Me

Okay. It's taken me a few years to say I'm a redneck, but ya would have to know why. When I was young(er), being a redneck wasn't cool like it is now. They made trailer trash look up-town. But now bei...
Posted by on Sun, 21 Sep 2008 21:42:00 GMT

Judgement

Here's yet another song that's important to me. I was thinking about a friend after talking with him and my mind drifted to this song. Anyone that knows me well enough to know my theory on things, kno...
Posted by on Sat, 20 Sep 2008 08:13:00 GMT

~~repost~~Assholes...Ya know this is a long one...

Hello all, Guess you can tell from the title what this is going to be about.Let me say, first off, that this in no way applies to any of my family or friends. If I viewed any of you in this light, wel...
Posted by on Sat, 20 Sep 2008 08:10:00 GMT

~~repost~~ Spring in Alaska

Alright. I figure my blogs of late have been rather...deep and dark, so I think it's time to get myself closer to normal. As the title states, spring has finally come to Fairbanks. Now, for those of y...
Posted by on Sat, 20 Sep 2008 08:09:00 GMT