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~The Greatest Challenge In Life...Being You~Isabel

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About Me

Hey! I'm Isabel AKA Iszzy! WELL WHERE SHOULD I START. RIGHT NOW I AM JUST TRYING TO FIND MY WAY BACK TO THE HEART OF CHRIST. I AM TRYING TO LOVE LIKE I USED TO LOVE, PRAY LIKE I USED TO PRAY, AND GROW IN CHRIST THE WAY I USED TO GROW. MANY PEOPLE HAVE BROUGHT ME DOWN WITH THEIR NEGATIVITY OR THEIR SLOW DESTRUCTION HIDDEN UNDER THE SWEET KIND WORDS AND ACTIONS OF THEIR COLD HEARTS. SO I HAVE STOPPED LOOKING FOR LOVE IN THOSE THAT CLAIM THEY LOVE CHRIST YET TREAT PEOPLE AS IF THEY THEMSELVES ARE OF THE WORLD. ITS EITHER YOU ARE OR YOU'RE NOT. YOU CAN'T BE BOTH. IN THIS WORLD YOU EITHER ON FIRE FOR JESUS OR AS COLD AS THE ICE ON AN ICEBERG. THERE'RE ARE NO INBETWEENS. YOU CAN'T BE LUKEWARM. LOVE CHRIST WHO WILL IN TURN TEACH YOU HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF WHICH WILL IN TURN TEACH YOU HOW TO LOVE OTHERS AS CHRIST LOVED YOU. TAKE THE TOUGH LOVE TO HEART. I HAD TO. I'M STARTING OVER!Header Banner Made with MyBannerMaker.com! Click here to make your own!

My Interests

Reading, singing, being alone, being with God, being with friends, writing poetry... ..

I'd like to meet:

Friendly people who love Jesus and who shares the same desires of my heart.THIS IS DEEP !!! If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you 'r e always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.Pass this on to at least 10 woman and 5 men.BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT.............."Courage is the art of being the only one who knows you're scared to death."
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Music:

Gospel, Contemporary Christian, R&B, Reggae ..

Movies:

A Walk To Remember, Left Behind 1, 2, And 3 was hot

Books:

The Bible

Heroes:

JESUS, My Daddy (for all those who know I'm a Daddy's little girl!), Me
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My Blog

Where Do We Go From Here?

Why can't I just tell you how I really feel? Why is it that I left you for a steal? See I'm hurting inside looking for you And I wonder if you're looking too. Can't you see how sorry I am? I went with...
Posted by ~The Greatest Challenge In Life...Being You~Isabel on Thu, 08 Dec 2005 08:36:00 PST

The Love Once Lost!

When out of the blue, the one you loved shows up again The mixed feelings return, the ones of joy and pain You remembered the times of unconditional love You'd give your right hand for the one you pla...
Posted by ~The Greatest Challenge In Life...Being You~Isabel on Fri, 28 Oct 2005 08:57:00 PST