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Doing what's best for me

The people highest up got the lowest self esteem....

About Me

I'm a 33 year old single mother originally from Port Arthur, TX, now residing in Houston...into ALL types of music...I'm just open minded like that! Hip-hop/rap is my first love though. Never fraud, can't stand serious folks because life is too short for that, and still, at my age, trying to figure out this whole love concept. I LOVE to sing...been told that I'm pretty good too! I'm a BBW...can you handle that??? Doubt it...not many men can!!

My Interests

I like to read, go to movies, karaoke (that's SO much fun!), spoken word, and hanging out with my friends.Take the quiz:
What does your birth month reveal about you?

April
Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret.Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people's problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Emotional. Aggressive. Hasty. Good memory. Moving Motivates oneself and others. Sickness usually of the head and chest. Sexy in a way that only their luver can see.

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I'd like to meet:

"It's a pleasure for you to meet me" ~ Dragonfly Jones...lmao Naw, I really don't know who I'd like to meet. If I had to meet some people, it would be some of these fraud ass folks in the music industry. How can you take someone's talents and exploit them the way that you do? I've never understood that. I pray that anyone, and I do mean ANYONE that gets into this so-called music business stays true to themselves. I know that CREAM is what makes this world go round, but damn....what about YOU at the end of the day? Will those folks give a damn about you? They'll still be making money off of your shyt while you're struggling to pay the damn rent. Damn...wait....I digressed....sorry....lol Who I'd like to meet....hmmm....musically, Jill Scott, Eminem, and ALMOST any southern rapper. (I said ALMOST for a reason...I question some of my southern peeps out here.) Politically, Condoleeza Rice, Colin Powell, and President Bush (I've got some questions...that's all! lol) Sports, I'd have to say Allen Iverson (Lord, I LOVE that man!) As for regular, every day folks, I'm an outgoing person, so I have no problem with meeting people.
Your Birthdate: April 7
Calm and understated, you struggle to express your love with words.
Over time, your partner learns to recognize your passion by the actions you take.
You're good at wooing someone slowly, without them even realizing it!

Number of True Loves You'll Have: 1

Number of Times You'll Have Your Heart Broken: 2

You are most compatible with people born on the 7th, 16th, and 25th of the month. What Does Your Birth Date Mean For Your Love Life?
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Music:

I'm a hip-hop girl at heart, but I can listen to anything. My mind is just open like that! On any given day I could be listening to Jill Scott, or System of a Down...maybe some Mississippi Mass Choir, or Slipknot. See...from heavy metal, to rap, to gospel, to country, I can listen to it all.

Movies:

My favorite movie of all time is "Ferris Beuller's Day Off". I love "Mommie Dearest", "Shrek 2" (I watch that with my daughter), "Anchorman", "Dodgeball", "The Exorcism of Emily Rose", oh, and I forgot to mention "Ferris Beuller's Day Off". (LMAO....sorry...it's a CLASSIC!!!)

Television:


Create Your Own

Books:

The Bible...it's all that's needed for life.FREE CHINESE NAMES

Heroes:

My mom!!!

My Blog

The sequel...thanks to Poetik once again!!!!

Ya'll can't tell me that this girl ain't a genious!!!!!  God sometimes sends you angels...lately she's been mine.  Her words...I mean...damn...just read them... It's summertimeAnd the beaut...
Posted by Doing what's best for me on Tue, 17 Jun 2008 10:18:00 PST

Thanks to Poetik...this is BEAUTIFUL!!!!

I haven't blogged lately...my mind is frazzled.  I've had a lot going on...some things that I'm sorry for...some things that have made me grow as a woman...as a person.  There are many thing...
Posted by Doing what's best for me on Fri, 13 Jun 2008 02:20:00 PST

For my friend

For the inspiration....for the stimulation....for making me feel wanted...for telling me that everything would work out...for showing me love when I felt unloved....for allowing me to be me, attitude ...
Posted by Doing what's best for me on Sat, 26 Apr 2008 06:47:00 PST

Many, many thanks!!!

On January 19, 2008, I lost one of the most beautiful women to ever walk the earth, my maternal grandmother, my "Momo", as my sisters and I called her.  She went Home to be with God after a battl...
Posted by Doing what's best for me on Tue, 19 Feb 2008 05:32:00 PST

To me, from me

I actually stole this idea from my girl Skyy (I miss you SOOOO much honey...we have to get together for drinks and one of our talks soon!!!).  When I read it, I officially KNEW this girl was a ge...
Posted by Doing what's best for me on Mon, 10 Dec 2007 08:12:00 PST

My special blog...to the bride and groom

I'd like to personally thank everyone who made my sister and my NEW brother in law's (Hey Paul, I can OFFICIALLY call you that now!!!) wedding a success!!!!  The wedding was absolutely beautiful....
Posted by Doing what's best for me on Mon, 10 Sep 2007 11:02:00 PST

I am....

I am The mother of one, sister of many, The one that knows much and wants to know more I'm the fighter for love, defender of common sense, the understanding woman, and the playful lover I am desired ...
Posted by Doing what's best for me on Fri, 07 Sep 2007 05:45:00 PST

My rant for my girl!!!! :o)

I have seen many things in my short 32 years, but the most sickening of them all is a man who can't admit that he lost a good woman.  Now before anyone says anything, I'm not talking about myself...
Posted by Doing what's best for me on Mon, 02 Jul 2007 04:03:00 PST

My Father's Day blog

Here is where I give tribute to the fathers out there...so sit back and enjoy...at least for a minute...lol I'm going to give thanks to the number one man in my life...my daddy!  Yes I said it, m...
Posted by Doing what's best for me on Sun, 17 Jun 2007 07:32:00 PST

My changes...

Yep...got bored with the page a bit.  So I took some more pics, added the one that I thought was the sexiest (lol) and changed the background.  So I guess I'm bored enough to where I wanna t...
Posted by Doing what's best for me on Fri, 01 Jun 2007 06:52:00 PST