Please, please, please, be athletic. And I don't mean the once-a-year, roll in the mud, football game with your buddies, followed up by a case of beer afterwards. I am very active and fit and require my partner to be as well. It's not just a superficial request, but more of a lifestyle choice. I enjoy a man's body in the same way you men enjoy a woman's--and if you stopped to read this, I have a feeling that the picture was appealing to you. So don't impose a double standard on me. I prefer someone that challenges me to be a better person in all aspects of my life, including the physical. One last thing. HUMOR. I am very sarcastic but in a playful way. It helps if you 'get' that. I shall rise to the occasion to 'get' you in return. Bring it on!