anyone who is interesting enough to peak my curiosity, can at least temporarily hold my attention, can carry on a decent conversation and having a sense of humor is a must ..... If you are arrogant or vain ... Bye Bye now , I WILL find you lame .... I'm just to old to ego tame ... Don't get me wrong I think sex is great but time is precious and mine I won't waste so if that is what you are seeking NEXT turn the page ...