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CANDICE

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My name is Candice. I tend to possess an innate unwillingness to conform to the expectations and norms set by society. I often need to understand the difference between commitment and entrapment. I like those who are openminded and enjoy seeing things from alternative points of view, although I don't always agree. I am strong-willed and determined about the things I regard as important. When I attempt to conform, I tend to loose touch with what makes life worth living for me. I like to make my own rules, set my own goals no matter the ramifications. I am adaptable and pretty down-to-earth. I usually collect friends with unusual occupations and interests the way people collect stamps, appreciating them for their beauty, their art and their individuality. I find solace in nature and animals and have a close connection with both, maybe because they make no demands other then that we coexist. I cherish the importance of family. I love different cultures and diversity in human nature. I despise war. I am a feminist. I strive to keep a centeredness and balance in my life, to always continue learning who I am and what my purpose is in life.

i don't like: people who dont keep their word on promises, war, violence, murderers, racists, rapists, homophobes, pervos, pedophiles, socks, rich and famous, mainstream america, gluttony and excess, religious fanatics who force their beliefs on others and are hypocritical in nature, people who complain about their problems and dont do anything to change them, exploitation - especially of women, people who abuse animals or other people, the shallow and unabsorbed, the government or lack there of, corruption, greed, poverty, starvation, shopping in mass production (aka- carbon copying), money, carelessness, men that think they are too hard for emotions, Howard Stern, being away from those i love, death, unoriginal music, sadness, working for the man, alarm clocks... i really dont like alot, but why focus on the negative. (i just count backwards to ten, go to my cave and find my power animal...slide)

Music:

MUSIC: Lacuna Coil, In Flames, Ani DiFranco, Dimmu Borgir, Arrested Development, Mos Def, Cee Lo, Outkast, Theater of Tradgedy, ZION1, Matisyahu, Soilwork, Tool, Blackalicious, Nirvana, Jurassic 5, Balkin Beat Box, Kanye West, A Tribe Called Quest, The Roots, Dilated Peoples, Gnarls Barkley, Mindless Self Indulgence, older - Red Hot Chili Peppers, older - Smashing Pumpkins, Flaming Lips, New Order, Amelie soundtrack, Snatch sountrack, Lock Stock and 2 Smokin Barrels soundtrack, Holly McNarland, The Gathering, 2Pac, Nappy Roots, Pink Floyd, Poe, Simon and Garfunkel, Mystic, Marvyn Gaye, Lauren Hill, Jill Scott, Eryka Badu, Talib Kweli, Bob Marley, Eric Clapton, Dido, Portishead, Radiohead, older Cranberries, Tori Amos, Reservoir Dogs soundtrack, Perfect Circle, Modest Mouse, Rush, Police, Men At Work, Beatles, Jimmy Hendrix, Santana, Bone Thugz N Harmony, Sade, Tracy Chapman, Gorillaz, Soul Coughing, Samael, Millions of fantastic indie bands on indie labels - far too many to list at this point, My boyfriends amazing music, and many many more.

Movies:

FILM: Any movie with Audrey Tautou: Amelie, Happenstance, He Loves Me He Loves Me Not, God is Great, A Very Long Engagement, Dirty Pretty Things, City of God, Run Lola Run, Braveheart, Snatch, Foxfire, Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, Willow, The Goonies, Twice Upon A Yesterday, Spanglish, White Oleander, Kill Bill, The Matrix, Lord of the Rings, Thirteenth Warrior, Elizabeth, Fight Club, Pirates of the Carribean, Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, Legends of the Fall, The Boondock Saints, Heat, The Insider, Little Fish, Inside Man, Heavenly Creatures, I Heart Huckabees, Dogma, A Time To Kill, The Patriot, Donnie Darko, Beyond Borders, Jumanji, Zathura, Girl Interrupted, Edward Sissorhands, Drop Dead Fred, The Secret Window, Blow, Traffic, Twelve Monkeys, Seven, Harry Potter, Charlie and The Chocolate Factory, Chocolat, Sleepy Hollow, Shawshank Redemption, The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe, Hotel Rwanda, Resevoir Dogs, Original Child Bomb, V for Vendetta, Casino, The Neverending Story, Return To Oz, Stigmata, Divinci Code, Fried Green Tomatos

Television:

TV: I believe they call it "PROGRAMMING" for a reason... However... old eighties cartoons, the Discovery channel, the Travel channel, the History Civilization channel, Sundance, Animal Planet. Weeds - the Showtime series. Heros. The Dave Chapelle Show. Old Saturday Night Live. Adult Swim. Robot Chicken. Southpark. Aqua Teen. Conan O'Brian. Law and Order - SVU. Heros. That 70s Show. Girlfriends. ComicView.

Books:

BOOKS: I Know Why Caged Birds Sing. The Heart Of A Woman. The Giver. Roll of Thunder Hear My Cry. Number the Stars. The Secret Language of Birthdays. What Color Is Your Aura?. Photography books. Lord Of The Flies. Anthropology Journals. Travel books. Art books. Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. White Oleander. Wizard of Oz. The Last Of The Mohicans. The Lord of the Rings. Chronicles of Narnia. Human Rights Journals. Books on Feminism. Anything educational, inspiring or imaginative.

Heroes:

HEROINES & HEROES: My family, each one for many different personal reasons. My friends. Individuals. Nonconformists - Those who stand up for what they believe in regardless of what others believe about them. Those who are free. Those that long to be free. Nurturing caregivers. Those that are kind at heart. Most socialworkers and advocates for righteous causes. Strong females who understand the importance of not exploiting their minds and bodies. Anyone with imagination. Musicians with original talent. Artists. Revolutionaries. Peacekeepers. Hitmen.