Whoever shows up. If that's someone that likes the same bands--fine. If it's someone who wants to ride their bike in Benton County and wants to know some new routes--fine. If you voted for Nader or Kucinich--fine. Photobloggers and virtual tourists--fine. Most of the people that I connect with on here are the unpretentious bloggers who like to analyze the minutiae and comedy of daily life.
I fit in better with people who are comfortable with themselves and don't define themselves with every new fad that comes around. (Rebelling by doing something that everyone else is doing seems anti-climactic to me.) Of course, that's not the only thing I'm going to consider about a person. If you're witty and make me laugh the rest doesn't matter nearly as much.
My exchanges are often blunt, not because I'm mean or spiteful, but because I don't think that grown-ups should waste all of their time trying to pretty things up just so somebody doesn't get their feelings hurt. Too many people on here grew up being told that they're special and perfect and think that the world revolves around people kissing their asses. Sorry. And I don't want you to kiss my ass, either. If you think that I'm negative, do an actual count on the things that I say and you'll see that I spread compliments around as well. I call it "balance". Part of the responsibility of being an adult is to look at things that offend you and see if there might be a different perspective that will help broaden your world view. I can't see the point in interaction if all you're going to do is tell each other how absolutely wonderful you are. I can tell myself that.