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You Are An INFJ
The Protector
You live your life with integrity, originality, vision, and creativity.
Independent and stubborn, you rarely stray from your vision - no matter what it is.
You are an excellent listener, with almost infinite patience.
You have complex, deep feelings, and you take great care to express them.
INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types.
INFJs place great importance on havings things orderly and systematic in their outer world. They put a lot of energy into identifying the best system for getting things done, and constantly define and re-define the priorities in their lives. On the other hand, INFJs operate within themselves on an intuitive basis which is entirely spontaneous. They know things intuitively, without being able to pinpoint why, and without detailed knowledge of the subject at hand. They are usually right, and they usually know it. Consequently, INFJs put a tremendous amount of faith into their instincts and intuitions. This is something of a conflict between the inner and outer worlds, and may result in the INFJ not being as organized as other Judging types tend to be. Or we may see some signs of disarray in an otherwise orderly tendency, such as a consistently messy desk.
INFJs have uncanny insight into people and situations. They get "feelings" about things and intuitively understand them. As an extreme example, some INFJs report experiences of a psychic nature, such as getting strong feelings about there being a problem with a loved one, and discovering later that they were in a car accident. Consequently, most INFJs are protective of their inner selves, sharing only what they choose to share when they choose to share it. They are deep, complex individuals, who are quite private and typically difficult to understand. INFJs hold back part of themselves, and can be secretive.
But the INFJ is as genuinely warm as they are complex. INFJs hold a special place in the heart of people who they are close to, who are able to see their special gifts and depth of caring. INFJs are concerned for people's feelings, and try to be gentle to avoid hurting anyone. They are very sensitive to conflict, and cannot tolerate it very well. Situations which are charged with conflict may drive the normally peaceful INFJ into a state of agitation or charged anger. They may tend to internalize conflict into their bodies, and experience health problems when under a lot of stress.
Because the INFJ has such strong intuitive capabilities, they trust their own instincts above all else. This may result in an INFJ stubborness and tendency to ignore other people's opinions. They believe that they're right. On the other hand, INFJ is a perfectionist who doubts that they are living up to their full potential. INFJs are rarely at complete peace with themselves - there's always something else they should be doing to improve themselves and the world around them. They believe in constant growth, and don't often take time to revel in their accomplishments. They have strong value systems, and need to live their lives in accordance with what they feel is right. In deference to the Feeling aspect of their personalities, INFJs are in some ways gentle and easy going. Conversely, they have very high expectations of themselves, and frequently of their families. They don't believe in compromising their ideals.
INFJ is a natural nurturer; patient, devoted and protective. They make loving parents and usually have strong bonds with their offspring. They have high expectations of their children, and push them to be the best that they can be. This can sometimes manifest itself in the INFJ being hard-nosed and stubborn. But generally, children of an INFJ get devoted and sincere parental guidance, combined with deep caring.
The INFJ individual is gifted in ways that other types are not. Life is not necessarily easy for the INFJ, but they are capable of great depth of feeling and personal achievement.
What's Your Personality Type?

My Interests

all the categories below :) also travelling, eating out, spending time with my niece and nephew when I get the chance, the Redskins, and shopping

I'd like to meet:

Anyone who's laid back and fun. I'd like to meet people who are honest, drama-free, make me laugh, and like to have a good time. People who listen AND talk, not just one or the other. People who enjoy doing different things, are non-judgmental, and have more to talk about than what kind of car they drive or who they think is cute. I like people who can have decent conversations and can understand my sometimes goofy, sometimes sarcastic sense of humor.

Music:

Any kind...honestly- my CD collection is large and very eclectic. Some of my favorites include Norah Jones, Mariah Carey, A Tribe Called Quest, Outkast, Metallica, My Chemical Romance, Maroon 5, Kanye West, Tupac, Shania Twain, The Dixie Chicks, Say Anything, Fall Out Boy and Frank Sinatra.

Movies:

Any kind, again. Some of my favorites are Closer, Crash, The Neverending Story, Shrek, The Man in the Iron Mask, Notting Hill, In Too Deep, Two Can Play That Game, The Green Mile, 50 First Dates...

Television:

I'm a closet reality TV and makeover show fan...shhhh, don't tell. I also like Grey's Anatomy, Friday Night Lights, Heroes, and Seinfeld and Friends reruns.

Books:

I read a ton...I like a lot of stuff, my favorite book recently was the Kite Runner, I'm working on A Thousand Splendid Suns & Life with Pi.

Heroes:

My sisters, my mom.
The Keys to Your Heart
You are attracted to obedience and warmth.
In love, you feel the most alive when things are straight-forward, and you're told that you're loved.
You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change.
You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please.
Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with.
Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.
You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.
In this moment, you think of love as something you can get or discard anytime. You're feeling self centered. What Are The Keys To Your Heart?
The Movie Of Your Life Is A Black Comedy
In your life, things are so twisted that you just have to laugh.
You may end up insane, but you'll have fun on the way to the asylum.
Your best movie matches: Being John Malkovich, The Royal Tenenbaums, American Psycho If Your Life Was a Movie, What Genre Would It Be?

My Blog

Settlin’

So...coming back and forth between work and my sister's house, I only seem to get country music stations. Don't get me wrong, I like some country, but it is seriously not the kind of music to listen t...
Posted by Karen on Wed, 05 Mar 2008 04:46:00 PST

Friend of Mine

"Friend Of Mine"I don't want us to have a fight,But in the background I can hear you chatting shite,I hear it every night.And you think you're being really cool,You've been doing it since we were both...
Posted by Karen on Thu, 28 Feb 2008 07:10:00 PST

unemployed

So....I got fired today, along with a good friend of mine. And I'm not ashamed of why I got fired, because I don't believe I did anything wrong. I stayed loyal to a friend and got fired for it. I told...
Posted by Karen on Wed, 19 Dec 2007 09:01:00 PST

Inspired by Danielle

So...just read Danielle's blog, and I'm feeling a little introspective myself. Just like her, I've gone through some crazy things in 2007, but towards the end have been finding myself much happier and...
Posted by Karen on Tue, 18 Dec 2007 07:59:00 PST

Unapologetic

Some people in my life seem to think that they know how I should be and who I should be. And for the longest time, I have believed what everyone else says. Somebody tells me I'm weak, I believe them. ...
Posted by Karen on Wed, 21 Nov 2007 07:53:00 PST

Getting out of the house, can you believe it?

So&.after basically over a year of staying at home, never doing anything, and not having a life, my sister coming to town to visit sparked a new attitude of actually liking people again, and being soc...
Posted by Karen on Sun, 09 Sep 2007 11:04:00 PST

internet is back!!! and some reflections...

Yay! My internet works again, so finally I will be able to talk to all you lovely people after about 3 months of no internet! It's about time... So most of you know that since I guess my junior year o...
Posted by Karen on Wed, 06 Dec 2006 05:59:00 PST

not ignoring you, just no internet for a while

Hey- just about to leave Maryland from visiting my parents and I'm going back to Richmond. Which means, unfortunately, that I will have no internet until I can get Verizon to do something about it, or...
Posted by Karen on Sun, 26 Nov 2006 03:49:00 PST

Quote I read today

"Then he went on toward scattered episodes but he brought them back without any judgment because since he could not think about anything else, he had learned to think coldly so that inescapable memori...
Posted by Karen on Tue, 29 Aug 2006 08:17:00 PST