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About Me

when i was younger, i don't know if i had any specific ideas of what i thought my life would look like at 26, but i know those ideals were nothing like what my life presently is. at times that makes me a little sad, but 99% of the time i'm thrilled at who i have become. i owe all of my sanity, peace, optimism, compassion, and love to my best friend, jesus. i love him because he first loved me. he loves me with an ineffable love that i don't deserve, but am eternally grateful for. the cool thing is he loves you that much too. there are things about me that i hope never change, like: my love for weird movies/foreign films, my passion for music, dancing, and jiu-jitsu, my amazing family and incredible friends, my all-encompassing enjoyment of the act of reading, my ability to laugh in any situation, my delight in learning new things, and my perspective that everyone has something to offer in order to make this world we live in a better place. there are things about me that i hope do change, like: my avoidance of conflict, my occasional tardiness, my indecisiveness, my tendency to keep the same hair style for years, and my inability to say "no". i lived overseas for a while, and it changed my life. i gained such friends on the streets of lima, peru. their eyes still speak truth and a stinging and refreshing reality into my soul. i thrive in meeting new people, and in keeping in touch with old friends (myers-briggs calls me an extrovert because of it). i often feel like i'm in a music video (a mellow, meloncholy, and colorful one. not a rap video). welcome!This layout was handmade with love by the folks at My space or yours? using original artwork by Marah Johnson. Go get one!

My Blog

To My Last Dance:

My Dearest Troy,Remember that summer we took Ballroom dancing lessons, and you were so nervous, because it was just the instructors, my parents, and us? I know I told you then, but I was pretty nervo...
Posted by on Sat, 08 Nov 2008 23:48:00 GMT

1st time for everything?

Have you ever played the game "I've Never"? Whenever I experience something new, I think about how now I've lost another winning point in said game. What a way to gauge growing up, eh?Well today I e...
Posted by on Wed, 04 Jun 2008 21:20:00 GMT

Could you imagine?

One of my favorite songs opens with these words:With the brushing of our shouldersI lived a life with you.We had a son or daughter who had my eyes.And your laughter echoed after you.All of this in a b...
Posted by on Thu, 10 Apr 2008 23:35:00 GMT

un momentito perfecto

Have you ever had a perfect moment? You know that instant in time where, if you're observant, there is nothing wrong. I'm not saying that in that moment nothing is wrong in your life, because I've f...
Posted by on Fri, 16 Nov 2007 18:47:00 GMT

Heaven knows anyones life can stand a little of that.

I am profoundly grateful for my friends, and it's something that I have been thinking about a lot as of late. I don't really know why. I think that there are different kinds of friends. Each type o...
Posted by on Sun, 12 Aug 2007 20:39:00 GMT

tattoos and the beauty of permanency

I want another tattoo. Badly. It has been about 2 years since I've been inked, and I'm definitely jonesin for some more. There are obvious reasons I love tattoos: the creativity that goes into a de...
Posted by on Wed, 11 Apr 2007 21:38:00 GMT