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Stacey J

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About Me

This is where I tell you a little about myself..there isn’t much about me that makes me different from anyone else. People tend to think I’m bitchy, but I’m not, you just have to get to know me. I’m just a chill person who loves to dance, laugh, have fun, and I’m not hard to please. As long as everyone around me has fun, then I’m having fun. I strive for things in life learning each and every day. Being young and still learning, growing in my mind, heart and soul, I have made mistakes in life and have truly learned from those mistakes. That is what makes me a stronger person…no one is perfect and I am not perfect. I have learned that life is full of contradictions. It’s crazy to be sane at times. I need to fall to fly. I suffer because I care. I have to unlearn to know the lesson. I have to give up because I only grow stronger. I have to be wrong to make things right. Nonetheless life's complexities are also life's source of beauty. I will cry to laugh again and fall apart to be whole again and get hurt to LOVE again. I fight and keep on fighting for what I believe in and will not give up. I will NEVER nor should ever have to lower my standards to please anyone; I know that I am better than that. I am a Scorpio and I'm easy to get a long with just don't do anything to betray me or break my trust. I know that when I’m true to myself I only expect others to be the same way. I VALUE and lookup to individuals who hold HONESTY, COURAGE, and STRENGTH within. I have determination, ambitions, and goals in life that I work at day by day. I try to plan for the future, but I cannot predict the future. I work hard towards my career that I want and I hope to meet people who will keep up and try not to hold me down. I want to travel especially to Europe sooner or later. I want to see other parts of this world we all live on. I have such a great and supportive FAMILY who stand by me and guide me in the right paths. My main goal is to make my parents happy and to give back for all they have done for me. Most of all I have amazing FRIENDS that keep me sane and can put a smile on my face when I’m down, who take care of me as I would for them, and who are just down for anything. I always believe that everything HAPPENS FOR A REASON in life. All I could have is hope and anticipation building within me. EXPECTATION is what that becomes and it does become a trap, but in the end I take it as a lesson learned and try to keep moving forward if I happen to fail or stumble. I don't want to live in REGRETS or ever wonder about "WHAT IF'S" because as long as I know I followed what was in my heart and that strong "GUT" feeling that everyone says to listen to and trust...then our DAYS is what we make it.

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"You Gotta Take The Good With The Bad, Smile With The Sad, Love What You Got, & Remember What You Had, Learn To Forgive But Never Forget, Learn From Your Mistakes, But Never Regret, People Change, Things Go Wrong, Just Remember Life Goes On""Everything we do, everything we think of, everything in our lives that involve emotions and feelings, just everything involving you is time... You can either work with time and let it take its own course or you can either work against it and try to make it the way you want it to be... When you work against time you end up fighting for what you desire, rather than working with time for what you really want and need."
"THERES ALWAYS GOING TO BE PEOPLE WHO HURT YOU, SO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO IS KEEP ON TRUSTING, BUT BE MORE CAREFUL ABOUT WHO YOU TRUST NEXT TIME"
"MAYBE GOD WANTS US TO MEET A FEW WRONG PEOPLE BEFORE MEETING THE RIGHT ONE, SO THAT WHEN WE FINALLY MEET THE PERSON, WE WILL KNOW HOW T BE GRATEFUL"
"DON'T TRY SO HARD, THE BEST THINGS COME WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT THEM TO =)"
i also like snowboarding, wakeboarding, shopping, traveling, and watching tv lol

I'd like to meet:

It's not about who I WANT to meet, it's about who I've ALREADY MET and how HAPPY he makes me! Cuz he loves to give me kisses and it makes me feel great. I've met an incredible person who brings out the best in me. He brings me much joy, laughter, puts a smile on my face even in my downest times, and shows so much love that comes from his heart. It's the simplest things that I take notice to and appreciate and I'm not hard to please. He keeps me motivated and grounded which is great because at times i may just go crazy lol...and I am truly thankful for that. He brings out a different side in me, which makes me look at things differently in life. I thank God each and everyday for bringing him into my life and I am always looking forward to making more memories. I love you hunnie!View All Friends | View Blog | Add Comment





With Sister...

Music:

I love all types of music, as long as the beat sounds good and you an shake your thang to it, then I'm all for it! I can listen to anything from old skool, slow jams, soft rock, R&B, Hip Hop, Reggae, Trance....list can go on. Neyo, maxwell, donell jones ,musiq soulchild, too short, daz, kurupt, fabulous, TI, pharell, charlie wilson, r kelly, jagged edge, joe, E-40, keak the sneak, KC n jojo keysha cole, blackstreet, jodeci, kanye west, alicia keys, anthony hamilton, john legend, tamia,eric benet,janet jackson, luthar vandross, keith sweat, 112, dru hill, mary j, warren g, india arie, jay-z, eric clpaton, sheryl crow, stevie wonder, genuwine, bob marley, carrie underwood, christina aguilera, shania twain, whitney houston, mariah carey and a bunch more

Movies:

Dirty Dancing, How to loose a guy in 10 days, The Devil Wears Prada, Breakfast at Tiffany's, My best friends wedding, The wedding date, Serendipity, The Da Vinci Code, The Departed, The Notebook, Oceans Eleven, Crash, The Wedding Crashers, The Italian Job, Disney's Beauty & the Beast, Knocked Up, Transformers, Tristan and Isolde, A goofy movie, The secret garden lol

Television:

One Tree Hill, The Hills, The Real World, The Life of Ryan, ESPN because the hubby loves to watch his sport news, The O.C, Friends, Grey's Anatomy, CSI, Smallville, Prison Break, American Idol, Newleyweds( when it was ..), MTV, VH1(The faboulous life of...),E, The Girls Next Door, Keeping up with the Kardashians, America's next top model, The Tyra Show, I love Lucy, According to Jim, Entourage, Katie and Peter, my beverly hills 90210 reruns, dr. 90210.... the news its good to know wats goin on in the world

Books:

The Da Vinci Code, Tuesdays with Maury, Any magazines, My Nursing books I guess cuz thats all I seem to be reading these days =P

Heroes:

My LORD SAVIOR Jesus Christ who is my soul, my world, and the being thats in me that keeps me going each and every day. Without him I wouldn't even be here. My Grandma's who I pray for every single day to stay healthy and keep strong to live long. My Family who will always be there for a lifetime near or far. My PARENTS who are amazing and even though they can get on my nerves, but then they wouldn't be parents, and family who have supported me through everything and have guided me in the right paths.My Hubby who loves me and keeps me grounded. My Brother yes even him..who drives me up a wall lol. My kuzin Audrey who has always been there for me even when i lived 3000 miles away. My Godson Nate which he's not a baby anymore =( who just puts a smile on my face by anything he does. The bookstealer..lol...Patring...we go back since babies before i could even walk lol...thanks for always lending an ear and always being there for me even across the country now. My bestfriend Jackie or younger sister/cousin...which we go way back since babies who has been there for through thick and thin...JERSEY WILL ALWAYS BE HOME ;P and mostly. My wonderful friends....who keep me alive, sane, and help shape me to being the way I am now. Without them life would suck. I got love for all these important people in my life!!!