People with the same interests as me, but not those that are so young that I'm old enough to be your mother. If you are not a personal friend of mine, or family, I don't wish to talk to any males. Women are a different story. I can always use more lady friends to chat with. I have had enough of these friends requests from 14 yr old boys, or men who are trying to pick up on me.I am not interested in talking to you.I'm tired of these guys who think that they are all that, sending me messages, just because I've lost weight, trying to get my attention, and who don't know how to read a profile, not knowing how to accept that someone doesn't want to hear from them. So guys, don't even bother. I don't want you to send me messages, or friend's requests.Go away, for crying out loud. If you just want to be friends however, feel free, just know that I am not interested in anything but friendship. Don't get any ideas for anything else, and DON'T send any suggestive remarks, as that will turn me off of any kind of friendship completely. As for bands, if I want a band on my list, I will go to them. Don't come to me, or I will definitely turn you down. I am very particular about my music, and won't promote just anyone. If I don't know your music, I won't put you on my list. I will go to the bands I want on my list myself, thank you very much.