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THIS SITE IS DEDICATED TO ALL THAT HAVE BEEN VICTIMS OF SOCIOPATHS.
ALSO IT IS TO PUT AWARENESS OUT THERE FOR OTHERS TO KNOW WHAT TO LOOK FOR TO AVOID BECOMING THE NEXT VICTIM.
The Reason for this Awareness is that there are far too many people being manipulated and abused by Sociopaths. Both Men and Women. I think the majority are men.
I am a Victim of A Sociopath / Psycopath.
It took me literally years to realize it. When I was told to stay away from him, I didn't believe what anyone had to say. He had already gotten me "snagged" and under his wing. He sought out my weak spots and maneuvered his way in.
For many years I thought that I was literally crazy, thought the best thing for me was either death or being locked away in a mental institution.
There was no appeasing him. Everything I did for him, he always found something wrong. I loved him with all my heart. I gave and I gave and I gave until I got fed up feared for my life, but decided to leave.
Not too soon after he made me feel as if everything was me and that he was "depressed" about his life and he couldn't go on with out me. He continued to manipulate me, make me feel sorry for him although inside I was the one suffering and hurting. He played the "affectionate feel sorry for me card." "I'm so lonely, I need you, I love you, I just want to die." Were some of the things I heard and the good person I am, I gave into those needs. Accepted him back, only for a short time though.
Because shortly after I returned he made the decision to run away from all the problems he caused and blamed me for. Even after he was gone, he found other ways to hit my "weak spots."
I was having a battle basically of good vs evil deciding on whether or not I should accept this person back after they hurt me so much, mentally and physically.
I chose to hold my head up high and say "Good Bye." Two months later he botched an attempted murder on me. Although I wasn't injured,it was my boyfriend whom nearly lost his life; I was suffering but alive to tell to get him caught.
Even after the fact I couldn't understand so many things. Until I was shown the Symptoms and Signs of a Sociopath and was able to piece things together through out the years of that dreaded relationship.
Recently I was on the outside looking in, watching a dear friend of mine being manipulated the way I once was. I tried to show her, stop her in so many ways but her parasite already sucked in his target. I literally outlined a list of what he would do to keep himself in her life. She didn't believe me. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt because I knew that she had very good instincts with people.
I was saddened and overly stressed when I saw that he followed the outline I had given her almost to a "T".
As smart as she is, he still managed to manipulate her "weak spots." They are spots that I can not fulfill and as much as I try to break her free, she's still snagged.
When they say "Things Happen for a Reason"; I see one of those reasons that I know the signs and although I can not break the endless cycle, I can continue to "coach" her to get away.
I pray to the Almighty God & Goddess that she will wake up before its too late.
I want to help others before it happens to them and give people a chance to share their stories.
MORE ABOUT ME, I am also a SURVIVOR of Child Abuse - Emotional & Physical, Sexual Abuse, Domestic Violence and Ovarian Cancer and winning the Endometriosis Battle.
Although the roads are bumpy in this life and sometimes it is hard to not look back and feel sad, I am proud to say I AM A SURVIVOR!
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What is a Sociopath?

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