Rian

My name is Rian, It's pronounced (ryan), though spelled uniquely, pisses me off when people call me (Re-ahn, shoulda seen the guy who told me thats a girl's name!).

I've been in this town nine years, not much has changed city wise, but I keep changing every second I live.

I'm blunt, honestly blunt, It's really hard for me to lie, and even harder for me to sugarcoat a lot of things, I am also one hell of a sarcastic cynic, but only when it's warranted, I'm a great joker, I have this talent to make people smile, or laugh, It's something I truly enjoy having the ability to do.

Just be real with me, I don't need things sugarcoated, or to play little chase games, though sometimes chasing is fun, chasing without an end in sight only tends to drop my interest, and not listening when I ask something of you, or tell you something, is what hurts me the most, as I try to consider the other person's feelings, I'm amazingly not very self centered.

My interests have remained with me since childhood, passion for science and music, passion for mechanical work like cars, and girls, course every guy likes girls, unless they're alternative lifestyle, They're fun, just when you think you know them, BAM they switch on ya, keeps a guy on his toes, unless they're crazy, then you might be missing a few...toes that is.

I've been heartbroken, fed obvious craptalk from people face to face, been backstabbed, and more, but I keep on, I have little faith in humanity as a whole, it's the individual people I call my friends that keep me going

I'm one of those people who, by inner nature, help out others, but rarely do they help me out, true friends are hard to come by, but I have them, Kevin, Davina, Pixie,Spike, Rae-Rae, Duck, Mike, Angel, Puffy, Thang, Michelle, Jeff (Both that I know), and more that I know and can talk with easily, friends are good to have.

As far as my likes, I like import cars,Raves. The Sense of Speed (as in going very fast), Import Tuning, Drift Racing, Nissan Cars, Anime, Computers, Music (particularly Electronic Dance Music, Rock, and Hip Hop), Games, Conversation, Forced Induction Technology, Oh! and Racer Girls.

My dislikes, well.., fake people, people who think becuase I'm black I gotta be a thug or I'm just faking like I'm white (I have no idea whats up with that, I grew up in a military household, it's just bullshit)

People who feed me transparent excuses as to why they don't date black guys (I've heard em all too, I particluarly love the 'If I brought a black man home my dad would kill me, and probably you too'.), Bad drivers (and there are many here in memphis, too many.).

People that will smile at you face to face and talk shit about you as soon as you turn around, People who judge others simply on looks or music tastes before really knowing them, as well as people who will tell you one thing and you already know they're talking out of their ass when it concerns you, or are self centered to the point that you wonder why you're their friend.

I'm open minded, comes from being raised how I was, it was something my mother always impressed on me, I judge by personality, I'll talk to anyone, we may not be friends but we won't be strangers either, I see no race, creed, ethnicity, or color, I see simply people, how they define themselves to me is what matters.

Who I date doesn't matter, looks help attract but her personality has to click, An open mind is a wonderful thing to have, don't ever close it...
I've met too many girls who just don't click personality wise, and quite a lot more who are just not willing to make something of themselves, they're really bright, and could be more, it pains my heart to see fellow sisters and even fellow brothers just close doors on themselves like that all because of their attitude