Barb

Love me or hate me...I don't give a shit what you think.I am as REAL as they come and completely honest, almost to a fault. Life is short...live like it is your last day...laugh like no one is watching...love like you have never been hurt FAQ's If you wanna know a piece of me this is how. Click here!
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I have been through hell and back TWICE, so the life I have now and the amount I have learned in my 28 years, mistakes or accolades, I wouldn't trade one second one moment of it for anything. They have made me the person I am today. I continue to grow throughout my experiences wrong or right, I am who I am and would never change for anything or anyone...EVER...I live everyday of my life as if it were the last. I am a want to be poet, I write to feel, to understand, to grow. Yes, I work on all my own cars, plumbing, sheetrocking, wash and detail my car. Why have someone else do it, when I will pay more attenion to the detail of it and do a better job, because it is mine. When I am not working or doing some wild improvment project on the house, you can find me at the beach with my kids or at our local park, playing ball. This is a glimse into me....welcome to my world. Any questions just ask, trust me I will be completely honest. Just make sure you want the honest answer to your question, not what you want to hear. Oh and Respect is an absolute must with me. I give respect to those who earn and deserve it and I expect the same in return. If you don't have respect then you will never get far with me.:)
Lay your past to rest, by accepting it.Each step wears down the shoe just a bit and so shapes the next step you take and the next and the next. Your past is always under your feet. You cannot hide from it, run from it, or rid yourself of it. But you can call it up, and come to terms with it. Are you willing to do that?From under your feet, memories rise. Images of your innocent youth, challenges, loves, failures, losses, accolades, disillusionment and wisdom. Do not try to leave them, ignore or forget them, but accept them. They are, nothing to fear. They happened, but they are gone now. You, alone, carries them into the present. With that understanding, the memories vanish. Though they remain in your mind, they no longer have any power over you. Be free of them, reborn and wholly in the present. Quotes I live by!! Some I wrote, some I found and loved.
Live your life so it's worth losing.
Some are so busy trying to disguise themselves to others, in the end they only become a disguise to themselves....B
Some say no guy worth having will make u cry, I disagree. Truth is everyones going to hurt u, u just have to decide who is worth the pain. So if u make me cry, have the balls to be a man, make it right & apologize, if not u wont be around long.
Beauty of the skin fades thoughout time, but beauty of the heart exudes though you throughout eternity and that beauty never fades as you will always be beautiful....B
What goes around comes around full circle.
We are like the sun,...we shall rise and we shall fall. It doesn't matter how well we rise, what matters is how well we pick ourselves up when we fall. ..B Where there is a will, there IS a way.
Stolen from Becky's page...."Feelings aren't supposed to be logical, dangerous is the man who has rationalized his emotions." Couldn't have said it better if I tried...Thanks Becky...another one from her page...It's not about the number of breaths you take in life, what matters is the moments that take your breath away.
It's only a mistake if you do it twice. the first time it's a learning experience. Good thing too, otherwise I would have made alot of mistakes.
If you try to find intimacy with another person before achieving a sense of identity on your own, all your relationships become an attempt to complete yourself." -unknown
Life is what we make of it...Destiny is ours for the molding. As we come to our forks in the road, we use our lifes' experiences to make our choices on the next road we take. How we handle our situations, our destinies. There is always a choice. Do not sit idle on the side of the road and let everyone pass you by, get up and live intstead of surviving. Do not let the hurt you felt yesterday, dictate your today.....B
*&^%$One of my all time favorite quotes. ********The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern.
Beautiful people do not just happen.
Elisabeth Kubler Ross
Eyes are the most important part of a person to me. They are the windows to your soul, one may be able to hide their pain behind their facade, but you can not hide it in your eyes. They tell so many stories, pain, heartache, tribulation, joy, love, freedom. My eyes are the keeper of my soul, you want to know anything about me, just look me in my eyes with honesty and integrity and they shall reveal more than you could ever imagine.
The eyes being the only part of your body that never changes, it is part of your soul, they are your windows. Our eyes open the door to reveal our lifes' stories, young or old, they are there absorbing every part of their life. tears flow from them releasing the overwhelming amount of pain or joy as that moment is branded into you soul. the only way a person may be blessed with seeing this is through your eyes. If you look hard enough with a pure soul they will show you. There is nothing in this world more passionate then seeing someone accolades as well as tribulations in there eyes.