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Dynamstatmatic

I would HATE life if I were'nt living it at the moment...

About Me

My name is Mel, I'm originally from Guyana and i like to have fun. I'm in my last year of college right now working on two B.A degrees (English Lit. & Psychology). I would say i'm a hard worker but i'd be lying. I'm not too much of a serious person either, although if the situation calls for it i can be. Most people would consider me "unconventional" but i like myself... i'd hang out with me. I get lost in the universe sometimes, and i enjoy having enough down time to get lost in myself as well. I'm definitely into the supernatural/ spiritual. Very interested in the paranormal and other things like that, stuff that can't be explained. I like learning about things that expand my imagination, my mind, and my soul. I like sci-fi and things like that, but i'm not a uber-geek or anything. That which is different and foreign feels familiar to me. I don't think like most people i know and i consider that to be a good thing. I formulate my own ideas, live by own philosophies, love who i want to love, live how i want to live (as much as legally and morally possible), and be who i want to be. I don't judge others who are simply trying to do the same. I like just chillin and relaxing with good company, I'm pretty open minded and easy going. I'm open to just about anything and everything, usually honest, always fun and friendly. Most people who know me like me. If you know me and you don't like me, then you don't really know me at all.
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Melissa
Birthday: August 12th
Birthplace: Georgetown, Guyana
Current Location: Old Westbury, NY
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Dark Brown
Height: 5'5
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right
Your Heritage: Carribean/ West Indian
The Shoes You Wore Today: Original Converses
Your Weakness: Procrastination & Stubborness
Your Fears: Being alone, The Dark
Your Perfect Pizza: So cheasy I shit in my sleep tonight.
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Lose weight, Go to Grad School.
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: Pssst....
Thoughts First Waking Up: Damn....
Your Best Physical Feature: My eyes......they're up here
Your Bedtime: You know that exact, precise moment when you stop being awake and start sleeping..... just about then.
Your Most Missed Memory: Not being such a damn fat-ass.
Pepsi or Coke: Pepsi
MacDonalds or Burger King: Burger King
Single or Group Dates: It depends on what the planned activity for the day is
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Lipton
Chocolate or Vanilla: Vanilla
Cappuccino or Coffee: Both
Do you Smoke: No
Do you Swear: I don't swear, but i do curse....sometimes
Do you Sing: Yes
Do you Shower Daily: Maybe..... am I joking?.......Maybe....
Have you Been in Love: Yes, how else could I make the natural transition to bitter black woman?
Do you want to go to College: Who REALLY wants to??, I'm here because I want a good life for myself and my future family.
Do you want to get Married: Yes, at somepoint in time.
Do you belive in yourself: Most of the time
Do you get Motion Sickness: I get headaches, but i don't spew my post-chewed pre-digested goodies.
Do you think you are Attractive: Sometimes
Are you a Health Freak: NO NO NO.... that bad cholesterol tastes too damn good.
Do you get along with your Parents: Uummm, When they don't bother me , yes. When i don't see them, even better.
Do you like Thunderstorms: Yes, it's fun and re-energizing when outside- and sensual, romantic, calming.....when your indoors ;).
Do you play an Instrument: Yes, the clarinet.
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Yes
In the past month have you Smoked: No
In the past month have you been on Drugs: NO!
In the past month have you gone on a Date: What is the meaning of this word...."date" ?
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Yes
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: No
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: Yes
In the past month have you been on Stage: No
In the past month have you been Dumped: No
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: In my bathtub...
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: I plead the 5th......
Ever been Drunk: Drunk- no, Tipsy- slightly, Buggin the hell out- yes
Ever been called a Tease: Yes
Ever been Beaten up: No, this pathetic guy tried once in high school, i had to go ahead and shame his name by busting his bottom lip -- you know who you are...
Ever Shoplifted: I plead the 5th......
How do you want to Die: In my sleep, painlessly, peacefully, and quick... like a brain anuerism or something.
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: Successful, happy, healthy, and true to myself.
What country would you most like to Visit: Canada... is that a country?
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Light Brown, or really Dark Brown
Favourite Hair Color: Doesn't matter...no skittle colors.
Short or Long Hair: Doesn't matter
Height: Taller than me
Weight: Meaty
Best Clothing Style: Clothes that match, and fit just right with a little room in the pants... not too tight & not too baggy.
Number of Drugs I have taken: NONE!!!!! "Drugs are bad...don't do drugs"
Number of CDs I own: I don't feel like counting them right now. Damn I'm lazy....
Number of Piercings: 2
Number of Tattoos: None
Number of things in my Past I Regret: If I lived a life without a day of regret, that would be my only and biggest regret on my last day of my life...
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Your Five Factor Personality Profile
Extroversion:
You have medium extroversion.
You're not the life of the party, but you do show up for the party.
Sometimes you are full of energy and open to new social experiences.
But you also need to hibernate and enjoy your "down time."
Conscientiousness:
You have medium conscientiousness.
You're generally good at balancing work and play.
When you need to buckle down, you can usually get tasks done.
But you've been known to goof off when you know you can get away with it.
Agreeableness:
You have medium agreeableness.
You're generally a friendly and trusting person.
But you also have a healthy dose of cynicism.
You get along well with others, as long as they play fair.
Neuroticism:
You have medium neuroticism.
You're generally cool and collected, but sometimes you do panic.
Little worries or problems can consume you, draining your energy.
Your life is pretty smooth, but there's a few emotional bumps you'd like to get rid of.
Openness to experience:
Your openness to new experiences is high.
In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas.
You'll try almost anything interesting, and you're constantly pushing your own limits.
A great connoisseir of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything. The Five Factor Personality Test
Your Personality Profile
You are dependable, popular, and observant.
Deep and thoughtful, you are prone to moodiness.
In fact, your emotions tend to influence everything you do.
You are unique, creative, and expressive.
You don't mind waving your freak flag every once and a while.
And lucky for you, most people find your weird ways charming! The World's Shortest Personality Test
Your Values Profile
Loyalty:
You value loyalty a fair amount.
You're loyal to your friends... to a point.
But if they cross you, you will reconsider your loyalties.
Staying true to others is important to you, but you also stay true to yourself.
Honesty:
You value honesty.
You do enjoy getting your way sometimes.
And if a little lying is required to do that, no problem.
A few white lies never hurt anyone (at least, that's what you tell yourself!)
Generosity:
You somewhat value generosity.
Your needs come first, but you also think about what is best for others.
And you'll selflessly help someone else out...
Although it would be nice if it helps you in return.
Humility:
You value humility highly.
You have the self-confidence to be happy with who you are.
And you don't need to seek praise to make yourself feel better.
You're very modest, and you keep the drama factor low.
Tolerance:
You value tolerance highly.
Not only do you enjoy the company of those very different from you...
You do all that you can to seek it out interesting and unique friends.
You think there are many truths in life, and you're open to many of them. The Five Factor Values Test
Your Five Variable Love Profile
Propensity for Monogamy:
Your propensity for monogamy is medium.
You see love as a gift that you should give to many.
It's hard for you to imagine being with one person at at time...
Let alone one person for the rest of your life!
But should the right person come along at the right time, you might be surprisingly willing to change.
Experience Level:
Your experience level is high.
You've loved, lost, and loved again.
You have had a wide range of love experiences.
And when the real thing comes along, you know it!
Dominance:
Your dominance is medium.
You tend to be the one with more power.
You aren't a total control freak in relationships..
But of course you don't mind getting your way!
Cynicism:
Your cynicism is low.
You are an eternal optimist when it comes to love and romance.
No matter how many times you've been hurt - you're never bitter.
You believe in one true love, your perfect soulmate.
And if you haven't found true love yet, you know you will soon.
Independence:
Your independence is low.
This doesn't mean you're dependent in relationships..
It does mean that you don't have any problem sharing your life.
In your opinion, the best part of being in love is being together. The Five Variable Love Test
You Are a Peacemaker Soul
You strive to please others and compromise anyway you can.
War or conflict bothers you, and you would do anything to keep the peace.
You are a good mediator and a true negotiator.
Sometimes you do too much, trying so hard to make people happy.
While you keep the peace, you tend to be secretly judgmental.
You lose respect for people who don't like to both give and take.
On the flip side, you've got a great sense of humor and wit.
You're always dimplomatic and able to give good advice.
Souls you are most compatible with: Warrior Soul, Hunter Soul and Visionary Soul What Kind of Soul Are You?
You Have a Melancholic Temperament
Introspective and reflective, you think about everything and anything.
You are a soft-hearted daydreamer. You long for your ideal life.
You love silence and solitude. Everyday life is usually too chaotic for you.
Given enough time alone, it's easy for you to find inner peace.
You tend to be spiritual, having found your own meaning of life.
Wise and patient, you can help people through difficult times.
At your worst, you brood and sulk. Your negative thoughts can trap you.
You are reserved and withdrawn. This makes it hard to connect to others.
You tend to over think small things, making decisions difficult. What Temperment Are You?
Your Element Is Water
A bit of a contradiction, you can seem both lighthearted and serious.
That's because you're good at going with the flow - but you also are deep.
Highly intuitive, you tune in to people's emotions and moods easily.
You are able to tap into deep emotional connections and connect with others.
You prefer a smooth, harmonious life - but you can navigate your way around waves.
You have a knack for getting people to get along and making life a little more peaceful. What's Your Element?
Your Power Color Is Lime Green
At Your Highest:
You are adventurous, witty, and a visionary.
At Your Lowest:
You feel misunderstood, like you don't fit in.
In Love:
You have a tough exterior, but can be very dedicated.
How You're Attractive:
Your self-awareness and confidence lights up a room.
Your Eternal Question:
"What else do I need in my life?" What's Your Power Color?
Your Personality Cluster is Introverted Thinking
You are:
Objective, honest, and credible
Intellectually curious, with many diverse interests
More inclined toward ideas than people
Fiercely independent and unapologetically unconventional What's Your Personality Cluster?
Your Dominant Intelligence is Linguistic Intelligence
You are excellent with words and language. You explain yourself well.
An elegant speaker, you can converse well with anyone on the fly.
You are also good at remembering information and convicing someone of your point of view.
A master of creative phrasing and unique words, you enjoy expanding your vocabulary.
You would make a fantastic poet, journalist, writer, teacher, lawyer, politician, or translator. What Kind of Intelligence Do You Have?
Your Heart Is Pink
In relationships, you like to play innocent - even though you aren't.
Each time you fall in love, it's like falling for the first time.
Your flirting style: Coy
Your lucky first date: Picnic in the park
Your dream lover: Is both caring and dominant
What you bring to relationships: Romance What Color Heart Do You Have?
You Have Good Karma
In general, you like to do the right thing when it comes to others.
Your caring personality really shines through.
Sure, you have your moments of weakness - and occasionally act out.
But, all in all, you're karma is good... even with those few dark spots. How's Your Karma?
What Your Face Says
At first glance, people see you as warm and well-balanced.
Overall, your true self is passionate and physical.
With friends, you seem dramatic, lively, and quick to react.
In love, you seem mysterious and interesting.
In stressful situation, you seem like you're oblivious to the stress. What Do People Think Of Your Face?
Your Birthdate: August 12
You're a dynamic, charismatic person who's possibly headed for fame.
You tend to charm strangers easily. And you usually can get what you want from them.
Verbally talented, you tend to persuade people with your speaking and writing.
You are affectionate and loving, but it's hard for you to commit to any one relationship.
Your strength: Your charm
Your weakness: Your extreme manipulation tactics
Your power color: Indigo
Your power symbol: Four leaf clover
Your power month: December What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

Your Deadly Sins


Sloth: 80%
Lust: 60%
Gluttony: 20%
Greed: 20%
Envy: 0%
Pride: 0%
Wrath: 0%
Chance You'll Go to Hell: 26%
You will die with your hand down your underwear, watching Star Trek. How Sinful Are You?
Your Brain is 40% Female, 60% Male
You have a total boy brain
Logical and detailed, you tend to look at the facts
And while your emotions do sway you sometimes...
You never like to get feelings too involved What Gender Is Your Brain?

My Interests

I love writing. I write poetry, I write songs, I'm currently writing a book, it's a sci-fi novel. I also love reading. I'm into music too, kinda eccentric artists and what not. I sing, I like to dance so going to the clubs with my friends is always fun even though I don't have the time to go that often.


I'd like to meet:



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I'd like to meet someone open minded like myself, someone willing to discuss abnormal topics. Someone willing to be open to possibilities that there is more to this life than time and ourselves. I'd like to meet someone who can hold a conversation. Somebody who can talk about deeper issues than themselves, clothes, and shoes. Somebody who actually has ideas and opinions on various matters so that we can have a discussion and share our views without necessarily trying to change the other's. I'd like to meet someone who has a great sense of humor, someone who knows how to laugh and be laughed at. Somebody who knows how to have a good time and just enjoy life and company. I'd like to meet somebody with morals and goals, and a future in mind. I'd like to meet to meet someone with a nice personality, someone real, someone who is the same person both in and absent from my presence. So... if you are this kind of person, we can definitely talk.If I had time and money, I would want to meet these guys and pick their minds for a while:

Music:


I love artists like Tracy Chapman, Amos Lee (my favorite), Katie Melua, Moby, David Usher, Matisyahu, Sade. Micheal Jackson is my ALL-TIME FAVORITE! I like Joss Stone, Common, Kanye West, The Killers, All American Rejects, Alecia Keys, Franz Ferdinand, Marques Houston, Frankie J, ?uestLove, Busta Rhymes, Usher, The Fray, R. Kelly, Jay-Z, Gwen Stefani, Lyfe, Madonna, India Arie, Vivian Green, Angie Stone, Nickelback, Jill Scott, BoysIIMen, Alanis Morisstette, Coldplay, John Legend, Ne-Yo, Kelly Clarkson, Lincoln Park, Eryka Badu, Lifehouse, The Roots, Stained (there's more, I can't list all of them). As i said, I love music, all types. I love writing it, listening to it, singing it, and especially dancing to it, I love it. I have to say my favorite genre is definitely Soca. If you want to know my FAVORITE songs right now, it's "Tiger Baby" by Militant and "Burn It Up" by R. Kelly, Wisin & Yandel (that song is freakin hott).

Movies:

Horror films mostly. Comedies are cool too, especially when they have my boys (Will Ferrell, Vince Vaughn, the Wilson bros., Ben Stiller, etc.) in it... cause those guys are some hilarious dudes.

Books:

Every Stephen king novel, short story, screenplay, and essay ever written...

Heroes:

I have no heroes, the world has become a depressing and disgusting place to live and die in. But I do have respect for those who make honest steps to change it.Bush knocked down the Towers

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