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hungry girl

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About Me

"People ask me: Why do you write about food, and eating and drinking? Why don't you write about the struggle for power and security, and about love, the way others do?
They ask it accusingly, as if I were somehow gross, unfaithful to the honor of my craft.
The easiest answer is to say that, like most other humans, I am hungry. But there is more than that. It seems to me that our three basic needs, for food and security and love, are so mixed and mingled and entwined that we cannot think straightly of one without the others. So it happens that when I write of hunger, I am really writing about love and the hunger for it...and warmth and richness and the fine reality of hunger satisfied...and it is all one.
I tell about myself, how I ate bread on a lasting hillside, or drank red wine in a room now blown to bits, and it happens without my willing it that I am telling too about the people with me then, and their other deeper needs for love and happiness.
There is food in the bowl, and more often than not, because of what honesty I have, there is nourishment in the heart, to feed the wilder, more insistent hungers. We must eat. If, in the face of that dread fact, we can find other nourishment, and tolerance and compassion for it, we'll be no less full of human dignity.
There is a communion of more than our bodies when bread is broken and wine drunk. And that is my answer, when people ask me: Why do you write about hunger, and not wars or love?"
--M.F.K. Fisher, from the introduction to The Gastronomical Me

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My Blog

Almost Famous: I really need some new moves.

Hey folks: check out this brilliant video for the American Princes' "Gravel," in which my dear friend Autumn plays beautifully dead and I am caught doing the same dance moves I was doing 10 years ago....
Posted by on Tue, 22 Apr 2008 14:39:00 GMT

non-negotiable

so many zeros, and the bank didn't even ask me what it was for. i used to wonder how so many people could routinely do monumentally stupid things with such ease. nobody's paying attention, is how. i f...
Posted by on Mon, 05 Nov 2007 11:07:00 GMT

things that go bump in the night

wrote this at about 2 am, but myspace burped up the "unexpected error" page every time i hit "post."about 20 minutes ago i was startled out of my very deep and desperately needed sleep by what sounded...
Posted by on Tue, 25 Sep 2007 09:24:00 GMT

my ego

so, some blogger who really likes words (but not enough to notice that the word "american" begins with the letter "a") posted an excerpt from my piece in the last issue of the oxford american as one o...
Posted by on Mon, 17 Sep 2007 11:35:00 GMT

two things

earlier this evening, a woman from the pinecrest memorial park called (on my home phone, which is really only used by my dad and telemarketers. sometimes i hear that three-second delay and realize i c...
Posted by on Tue, 07 Aug 2007 19:32:00 GMT

prison break

i called my dad because he has keys to my apartment and i thought (foolishly, as usual) that perhaps he could unlock the door from the outside. he had Important Company visiting, and dragged this poor...
Posted by on Wed, 11 Jul 2007 15:27:00 GMT

hello dad i'm in jail

i'm locked inside my apartment.no, really.i was on my way out to work. i turned the deadbolt knob, and instead of feeling the deadbolt knuckle its way out of the door frame, i felt the lock's internal...
Posted by on Wed, 11 Jul 2007 13:11:00 GMT

this is really happening

on my way to work yesterday i happened to pass by the new chick-fil-a on west markham (close to university). and by "pass by" i mean "sit in traffic in front of." the place has been open for a week, a...
Posted by on Sat, 07 Jul 2007 14:39:00 GMT

so, boys

i came to the conclusion recently that boys are made of knives. while i still believe that this is true, i'd like to amend this judgment to include that some boys are also made of slime mold.here's th...
Posted by on Thu, 07 Jun 2007 23:54:00 GMT

oh the irony

see previous entry, entitled "good times." follow directions therein. return to entry entitled "good times." read comment.lather, rinse, repeat.this meta-blogging will end soon, i promise.
Posted by on Wed, 25 Apr 2007 08:58:00 GMT