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DaFirstRealLady

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About Me


Get Your Sexy Name

For those of you that do not know me, I am a innovative, self-motivated, goal-oriented and determined young lady. I love my family and friends with all my heart. If there is one piece of advice I can share, its to let your love ones know how much you care for them at all times because once their gone you can never get them back.To answer the question “What makes me the first real lady?” You should know that I am not the first; the real first ladies consisted of our grandmothers, great-grandmothers and so on. They carried themselves with poise and veracity. They understood the importance of respect and demanded that it was given to them as they gave it to others. And among a long list of other honorable attributes they harvested, they knew how to take care of themselves and they were always willing, ready, and strong enough to take care of their men and their families. After all the black man is a man that needs as much love as possible in order to survive in this world that continues to try to knock him down. So getting back to me, I am the first of a few real ladies that exist today. As the majority of women today are materialistic and selfish that is not me. Unlike many I know how to take care of myself foremost, thus I can take care of anything and anyone. I understand the importance of lifting up my black man up, thus I will never demean him when unnecessary or in public. After all there is a time and place for everything. So in a nut shell, I have my shit together. I am independent yet dependable. I am loving and open. I am DaFirstRealLady!!Ok ladies, no I am not bashing all of you…I am just saying we as a whole need to step our game up. And men, no you are not off the hook…just as women have their flaws so do you. So get yourself together so you can be ready when that real lady comes into your life. Do not think that everything is too good to be true!
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: DaFirstRealLady
Birthday: January 18, 1983
Birthplace: Anaheim, CA
Current Location: Greenbelt, MD
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Brown
Height: 5'7
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right
Your Heritage: African American
The Shoes You Wore Today: Black Steve Maddan Stiletto
Your Weakness: Persistence and food
Your Fears: Not meeting ALL my goals
Your Perfect Pizza: Meat Lovers from Pizza Hut
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: To get into my graduate school of choice
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: LOL
Thoughts First Waking Up: Another Day, Another Dollar
Your Best Physical Feature: Smile
Your Bedtime: 11:00pm
Your Most Missed Memory:
Pepsi or Coke:
McDonalds or Burger King:
Single or Group Dates:
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Lipton
Chocolate or Vanilla: Vanilla
Cappuccino or Coffee: Cappuccino
Do you Smoke: No
Do you Swear: If I need to
Do you Sing: No
Do you Shower Daily: Hell Yes!
Have you Been in Love: Yes
Do you want to go to College: Been there, done that and want to go back
Do you want to get Married: One day
Do you belive in yourself: Of course, If I don't who will
Do you get Motion Sickness: No
Do you think you are Attractive: Yes
Are you a Health Freak: No
Do you get along with your Parents: Yes
Do you like Thunderstorms: No
Do you play an Instrument: No
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Yes
In the past month have you Smoked: No
In the past month have you been on Drugs: No
In the past month have you gone on a Date: No
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Yes
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: No....Yuck!
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: No, but that sounds like a good idea...mmmm...california roll
In the past month have you been on Stage: No
In the past month have you been Dumped: No
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: No...who does that!
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: No
Ever been Drunk: Yes
Ever been called a Tease: Yes
Ever been Beaten up: No
Ever Shoplifted: No
How do you want to Die: In my sleep
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: In any position that will help kids
What country would you most like to Visit: Greece
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Brown
Favourite Hair Color: Dark Brown/Black
Short or Long Hair: Short....please no corn rows
Height: 6'2 plus
Weight: 190 plus
Best Clothing Style: Grown and sexy...yes men can be that too
Number of Drugs I have taken: None.....I am all about hugs no drugs....hahaha
Number of CDs I own: a lot
Number of Piercings: 2
Number of Tattoos: 2
Number of things in my Past I Regret: 3
CREATE YOUR OWN! - or - GET PAID TO TAKE SURVEYS
You scored as Joan. Woohu!! You're a Joan!! You have the gift of giving and letting others know that you're there for them no matter what. You stay true to what you believe in and let no guy come in and take that away from you. You go grl!!

Joan


100%

Toni


63%

Lynn


50%

Mya


50%
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My Interests

Spending time with family and friends!!
..And I love Art...Right now I am liking Mr. David Garibaldi

I'd like to meet:

First let me start by saying I am not on here to meet anyone. I am just on here to past time while I am at work. In addition it helps me keep in contact with all my friends and family that are spread from coast to coast. So basically please don't ask me when we are going to meet or even for my number, cause that is not what I am about. Taking it a step further please don't request to be on my Friends List if you have not had a conversation with me. Why would you want to be my friend if you have not taken the time to get to know me?

Music:

I love music...it is my coping mechanism! I listen to all types for the most part. It all depends on the day and my mood.

Movies:

(1) Love & Basketball (2) The Best Man (3) Brown Sugar

Heroes:

Sometimes, she was stomped to death by racism & sexism, executed by hi-tech ignorance while she carried the family in her belly, the community on her head, and the race on her back! The strong black woman is dead! Or is she?My heros are all the strong black woman that did and have survived!

My Blog

To My Sisters in the Lord

  There comes a time in every woman's life when she has to take a close look at herself. Not at her circumstance, not at what she did, not how unfair life is, or at who made you do it. She has to...
Posted by DaFirstRealLady on Mon, 26 Nov 2007 10:12:00 PST

BILL COSBY-------A MUST READ

 Subject: Jackson invites Cosby  I had never seen the Reverend Jesse Louis Jackson cry in public. And he's seldom upstaged. Until, Bill Cosby came to town. Last month Jackson ...
Posted by DaFirstRealLady on Wed, 17 Jan 2007 10:44:00 PST

Some of you need to sit down and write a similar letter...

Dear Alcohol, First and foremost, let me tell you that I'm a huge fan of yours. My friend, you always seem to be there when needed. The perfect post-work cocktail, a beer at the game, and you're even...
Posted by DaFirstRealLady on Wed, 10 Jan 2007 11:34:00 PST

I think this applies to you

A good woman is proud of herself.  She respects herself and others.  She is aware of who she is.  She neither seeks definition from the person she is with, nor does she expect them to r...
Posted by DaFirstRealLady on Wed, 10 Jan 2007 11:20:00 PST

It hurts so bad!

Birthday vigil for a victim Northwestern graduate served as a role model By Julie Bykowicz Sun reporter Originally published November 12, 2006 They lit candles yesterday for Jamelle Carter's 19th bir...
Posted by DaFirstRealLady on Thu, 16 Nov 2006 08:43:00 PST

Empty the Trash

There is a reason the trash man comes every week to pick up the garbage. If you miss him and let it pile up, whewwwww what funk. It's the same way in our lives. We have to empty the trash on a regula...
Posted by DaFirstRealLady on Thu, 10 Aug 2006 12:31:00 PST