I’m one that checks every single profile before accepting Friend Requests. If I find that we have absolutely nothing common, you will be denied, bottom line. If you add me, let me know how you found me (if we go to the same sport shows, know me through mutual friends, on a message board, etc.)
If your main purpose of adding me is to increase your friend count to make it seem as if you’re “so popularâ€, don’t even come my way. If you really want to be my friend, send me a message along with the request. Tell me something that makes me want to add you. If you don’t, you won’t get added. Period.
If I go to check your profile and it turns out to be private, please have the decency of sending me a message telling me about yourself. None of that “Hi, my name is ____. Please add me†shit. Make it at least catch my attention. If not, then I will deny your requests.
My profile is NOT a personal ad. So sorry guys, If you write me with the intentions of asking me out, you’re only wasting my time and yours. I’m already interested in someone, so if you’re looking for a girlfriend, I suggest www.match.com.
One thing that I hate, people who have the vocabulary of six words or less when they send me a message. Be intelligent, clearly you can come up with more than "what's up?" or "hey, you're hot". I don’t tolerate stupidity whatsoever, nor will . If you can't form a proper sentence or two, I won‘t talk to you. Be original.
If you send me a friend request, send me a message so I know that you really are wanting to be my friend and are not some spam bot. You will have 72 hours to send me a message. If I don't hear anything by then, I will deny your friend request.