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vexatious

I am here for Friends

About Me

I'm just Flash. I like having fun with good people. I enjoy my weekly parties that keep me sane. I enjoy going to the bars with my friends. I like drinking, playing Texas Hold'Em (but that doesn't mean I'm good), Danny B's, goin' to the moooovies, off-roading, watching movies, shooting pool, dancing, playing music of any kind, late night laugh-a-thons at Denny's... I'm up for just about anything. I graduated from Marywood University (class of '06) with my bachelor's in Music Therapy. I spent 9 months at an internship site called the Queens Center for Progess in Bellerose, NY working with Adults with Developmental Disabilities. Don't worry: I won't get offended if you have no idea what music therapy is. I can explain rather well. Back at Marywood to start working on Grad School, and I passed my MT-BC exams!!! I drive a Bronco named Betty. Yes, Wilma has been retired... she was a fine gal. But Betty: she's got a chunk of my heart already. The only chick for me. I have 2 dogs, which are currently living with my parents in NY for the time being. I've got an amazing group of best friends scattered about the US (B-lo, FL, and PA): I'd be lost without em: they're my rock. "Wow, that was so cheesy I could put it on a cracker and eat it!". Oh yeah, we have a quote book... and let me just tell you: these quotes are amazing. Anyway, I'll leave off where I started: I'm just Flash.

My Interests

"I no doubt deserved my enemies, but don't believe I deserved my friends." -- Walt Whitman"The most wasted of all days is one without laughter." --E.E. Cummings"Music is the only language in which you can not say a mean or sarcastic thing." -- John Erskine

I'd like to meet:

i don't fuckin care. i've already met a buncha chill people, learned some new words that i didn't know existed. i don't need to spread my musical horizons, so if you're in a band, or promoting your band, and i've never heard of your band, fuck off and die. please. like: break your demo CD in half and slit your wrists with it, die. =o) Anyone else, really, that wants to say hi... go for it. Oh yeah, and I'd like to meet this dude:

Music:

EVERYTHING

Movies:

*I'm a one-eyed, one-horned flying puprple people eater!!* I'm a big fan of shit like Princess Bride, A League of Their Own, Purple People Eater, The Never-Ending Story, shit like that. Haven't been to the movies in forever, but I was a big fan of Identity. And i was prrreeettty upset when Dreamcatcher came out, but the book was pretty weird too, so whatever. I'll watch just about anything as well (are you noticing yet that i really don't have an opinion on anything?) Big fan of Kevin Smith, but I think he's going downhill.. Horror's always a good thing, comedy's a yes. Sappy-girlie chick flicks are a must when having a girls' night in (which, recently, guys are invited to...)

Books:

I read anything you put in front of me-- I've been a book worm my whole life. I grew up on R.L. Stein, and have since graduated to psychology books, philosophy books, smut, murder mysteries, and thrillers. Yes, I read the Harry Potter books. I read because it gives me a temporary escape into another person's life... call it escapism if you want to, but most of the time other people's lives are way more interesting than my own.

My Blog

Relaxation Techniques, with Gong.

The title would make sense if you were in Theories of Creative Arts Therapies w/ Jess and myself. That's all I'll say about that. Life's been pretty OK to me recently... Finals start tomorrow, which ...
Posted by vexatious on Fri, 07 Dec 2007 08:14:00 PST

life = shit

Work is going pretty shitty right now, as evidenced by my less-than-24-hour thanksgiving "break" and the fact that they're not paying me for hours I've worked because they were approved for a week and...
Posted by vexatious on Tue, 27 Nov 2007 02:27:00 PST

a day in the life

So I've recently figured out that my schedule sucks balls. Let me tell you why: Tues- Friday, 8:30am to 11:30 am-- Work in Clarks Summit. Monday- Thurs, 12:30 pm to 2:30 pm-- Work in Scranton. Tuesday...
Posted by vexatious on Thu, 04 Oct 2007 11:55:00 PST

a month-long hiatus

Ok, well.. it's been a month. Time for a recap (this is actually prompted by a phone call from Kristen, forcing me to realize that unless I blog my life, she has no idea what's going on, simply b...
Posted by vexatious on Tue, 25 Sep 2007 11:06:00 PST

update

I've recently discovered that I've lowered my tolerance for assholes. In general. I've decided to stop putting up with bullshit, and unnecessary drama. I've decided to stop chasing after everything, a...
Posted by vexatious on Mon, 20 Aug 2007 06:55:00 PST

Here's to things working out.

So, for those of you that don't know, my mom's pretty sick. Like: hospital, tests, blood transfusions, sick. Not good. And what really blows is that, since I finally started working at SCC, I can't ju...
Posted by vexatious on Thu, 26 Jul 2007 09:24:00 PST

an I-forgot-what-I-can-do moment

Ok, so for those of you (and there shouldn't be many) that don't know, I'm a cellist. I play the cello simply because I love it... not because I want people to listen to me, or because I need re-infor...
Posted by vexatious on Mon, 02 Jul 2007 04:06:00 PST

how many licks does it take to become the Dalai Lama?

No, I have not officially gone off the deep end, so ice it out a smidge. However, I am considerably tired of people having no respect for another person's emotional baggage. Don't be a dick. It's not ...
Posted by vexatious on Wed, 27 Jun 2007 07:59:00 PST

OK.. this is whats going on.

My maternal Grandfather is currently going through a shit-load of medical problems. He's been in and out of the hospital a bunch of times in the past two months, mostly because of falls and the subseq...
Posted by vexatious on Tue, 26 Jun 2007 10:32:00 PST

An interesting week...

My head hurts. I'm tired. But I'm the closest to being happy that I've been in a while. Kristen and Tim (independently, of course) came down from Buffalo to see me this week. I'm pretty sure both had ...
Posted by vexatious on Sun, 24 Jun 2007 07:31:00 PST