Someone who doesn't know why but runs outside and sees me standing in their bushes and says "What's your favorite Gilligan's Island?" and I says "The Hamlet one maybe." Then she says "What about the spider one?" Then I say "The big hairy spider in the cave one?" "Yeah, that one's on." she says to me. I wait a bit.. and then tell her how "One time I found a spider in my room and decided to throw it out the window instead of squashing it and when I came back Gilligan was running from that big hairy spider...." Then she says "Good thing you didn't kill it." I say "I know." And that's how we learn to trust each other.