Im 31 (YIKES) and live in Bremerton Washington. I have 3 kids, Stepdaughter Ashley is 14, My son Jason is 11 and my baby Nicholai is almost 4. Ashley is so independent and headstrong and has flat feet like her DADDY! She and I are best buds, and I would do anything for her. I couldn't love her more if she were my real daughter. My son Jason is one of the most smartest and honest people I know. He amazes and inspires me everyday. He will always be my little Jaybird. My son Nicholai, who is only almost 4 is our little man. He is learning so fast it amazes me! He can hold a serious conversation about any bodily function you can think of. He was born in the front seat of my car in a parking lot. We tried to make it to the hospital but he had other plans. My husband Tom and I delivered him with only the help of the 911 operator. Little Nicky was 3 minutes old by the time the paramedics got there. Something I will never forget. If you want to read about it or hear the 911 call, Google Shellie Cohagan and go to one of the news sites that come up. I love to party when I get the chance. I keep no secrets about my views on organized religion. I do not believe that some magical dude created all that is. I respect your views, just don't preach to me or my family and I will do the same for you. I have many friends and family who are very religious. Its just not for me or my family. I am not a satan worshiper. I believe in the earth and nature. Your religion is written on the pages of a book, my religion is the wind the blows the pages. I am totally and helplessly in love with my husband to be, Tom. He is my compass. As long as I follow him I know I am headed in the right direction. He is my long haired, flat footed everything!