From the experiences life has brought me I can give you this:
Never let fear and worry dictate your life. Never judge anyone, but love all. Dont say in your own space what you would'nt say to your friend's face.
You are beautiful. Look deep within yourself and see this beauty, look up and never down on yourself. Be open and honest about who you are, truth is beautiful.
Even if your love is not returned in the way you expected, do not be afraid to love.
If you keep a journal, only write what in a hundred years will give a part of your innermost self to the reader, trust your flow of words, and let your heart find the page how it will, it will all make sense.
Add all the positivity you can to the world, and see no one as your enemy, see no one as worthless, all are hearts to be loved. See the beauty and essentiality of embracing others as they are, the true and beautiful self that connects to you through expressional form making every moment a sound, every sound a symphony. This is balance. With open arms and open hearts embrace the diversity that paints the world in splendid colors of light. Get outside, and feel nature's warmth fill your heart with sunrise. You may find yourself in a bed of roses and a field of wildflowers, or walking a nameless road to a destination unknown, wherever you find yourself, remember you have a beautiful and unique purpose in the universe. Celebrate who you are, live your truth, walk your road. Watch the butterflies soar the sunset, and know they'll be in the light of your sunrise. Peace always.
Radiohead - Stop Whispering
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PECnzN8P6KQ